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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Creepy dudes |
| MsV |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2017, 6:13 pm
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| I haven't had to deal with too much in the way of sexual harassment. I do notice people making the sign of the cross when I sit next to them on the bus, though. Huh? Why would they do that? She must be a goth lol. Grannies always give me a look of pity when handing me a Salvation pamphlet. Tbh gran... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: To all the bitter men |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2017, 5:59 pm
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Replies: 263
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| I personally find it difficult not to be bitter. I'd describe it as feeling hurt because specific people seemed to like me at first, but turned out not to want me. It makes me feel like no one can want me. Like I'm nothing. Not worth loving. That makes me feel angry, but I'm not sure why. I don't t... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How to say things like "Take your time" without being rude? |
| MsV |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2017, 2:25 pm
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Fraser_1990 wrote: "Take your time, I have all day."
"No really.... you're worth sacrificing my whole day for, no need to hurry."
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How to say things like "Take your time" without being rude? |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2017, 2:22 pm
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Replies: 36
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| I remember another post from a user on this forum who's response to someone's concern or complaint "what do you want me to do about it?" somehow offending the other person. That is just another example. The polite way of asking the same question would be "What would you like me to do... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: How to say things like "Take your time" without being rude? |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2017, 2:21 pm
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| How about "I'll be here when you're ready." The "what do you want me to do about it" is extremely rude. "I'll be here when you're ready." ... To me, it would depend on the nonverbal cues. "what do you want me to do about it" ... At first glance, definitely th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2017, 2:18 pm
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Replies: 239
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| That's cool. I can relate to the unwanted pressure. When there is chemistry thought, then you do wish to talk to the person and them you, however you/they will be extremely mindful of making them/you feel comfortable and not pressured. That's what I figured. Plus I wouldn't have wanted space, had m... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: To all the bitter men |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2017, 2:13 pm
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Replies: 263
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| but do you not find it unfair that women have so high standards? i cant respect that. y ou females what a guy with great self-esteem, not virgin, 30 friends and no mental problems. it makes no sense for me. its not like you females are perfect either. so stop with this high standards. Okay fair eno... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: To all the bitter men |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2017, 2:10 pm
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| SHOULD. Never 'should' on anyone. Seriously, yes, there are people on this planet that are less. Yes there are people who are ostracized. And yes, there are people who are alone due to circumstances of their birth. Is it right? No. But the fact remains. Yes, there are. I can't tell someone how to N... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: To all the bitter men |
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Posted: 14 Jan 2017, 12:04 pm
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Replies: 263
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| but do you not find it unfair that women have so high standards? i cant respect that. y ou females what a guy with great self-esteem, not virgin, 30 friends and no mental problems. it makes no sense for me. its not like you females are perfect either. so stop with this high standards. Okay fair eno... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Creepy dudes |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2017, 10:42 am
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Replies: 42
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Barchan wrote: I haven't had to deal with too much in the way of sexual harassment.
I do notice people making the sign of the cross when I sit next to them on the bus, though.
Huh? Why would they do that? |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: To all the bitter men |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2017, 10:40 am
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| Where am I on a thread in this forum voicing feeling sorry for myself about my dating problems? Most of the threads I have made have been about politics. I just joined this forum, so don't know what you do generally. But this You have no idea what it is like being a woman on her own having to suppo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: To all the bitter men |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2017, 10:37 am
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| I don't want a woman who wants to be depending on me. I want a woman who will depend on herself as much she is depending on herself as single - unless she suddenly loses job and that would be temporarily; and I am not really planning to have kids. Is that fair enough? That's perfectly fair ...but i... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: To all the bitter men |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2017, 10:35 am
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| ^I forgot to mention that his hard work and caring nature will make a great role model for our children. I want them to have a father they know they can always turn to He sounds amazing! So happy for you! Thank you I was bloody lucky to find him! It's so weird though because at first he was complet... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: To all the bitter men |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2017, 9:38 am
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Alliekit wrote: ^I forgot to mention that his hard work and caring nature will make a great role model for our children. I want them to have a father they know they can always turn to
He sounds amazing! So happy for you! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: To all the bitter men |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2017, 9:34 am
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| Just from a female perspective, having a long term relationship is difficult for female Aspies too. For me at least. I can understand at 22 or whatever age that can be incredibly frustrating and just hope that maybe this can help: love you first. Be happy with who you are, undefined by "scorin... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: To all the bitter men |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2017, 9:20 am
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Replies: 263
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| Just from a female perspective, having a long term relationship is difficult for female Aspies too. For me at least. I can understand at 22 or whatever age that can be incredibly frustrating and just hope that maybe this can help: love you first. Be happy with who you are, undefined by "scoring... |
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