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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages |
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Posted: 11 Jan 2017, 4:07 pm
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| So, I'm wrong because to be on the safe side I consider bar hopping a red flag, even though there may be a small percentage of women who goto bars and are decent? Do I have that right? Yes, that's right. You might be missing out on a very nice young lady, due to your bias against bars, if you hear ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages |
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Posted: 11 Jan 2017, 4:03 pm
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| In response to someone's post who wrote about someone could have an ASD or a personality disorder, I don't care what disorder anyone has, if any of your behavior is toxic and overwhelming for me and it's going cause you to do abuse and control me and bring down my low self esteem and give me anxiet... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages |
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Posted: 11 Jan 2017, 3:59 pm
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| If you really want to just meet up with your girlfriends for a drink, then go to a bar and grill. I don't see a reason to go to a bar that has loud music and dancing and drunks. If you want to go to those places, then take you Hunny for a drink and a dance. For myself, I'd rather go to a more expen... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages |
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Posted: 11 Jan 2017, 3:57 pm
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| Final clarification of reasons for my post: - my intention was not to start a male or female bashing fest! There are tons of good guys and women and we all have our preferences. We're are different stages in our lives, have varying tolerances for example certain lifestyle choices (smoking drinking m... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages |
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Posted: 11 Jan 2017, 3:46 pm
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| Annnd what makes you guys experts on the male perspective? We are experts in knowing when a man is telling us how we feel isn't how we feel. We should be allowed to point out that you are wrong. I know plenty of non wild young women, though you'd probably overlook us in a bar. We'd be the ones mind... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages |
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Posted: 11 Jan 2017, 3:43 pm
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| In response to someone's post who wrote about someone could have an ASD or a personality disorder, I don't care what disorder anyone has, if any of your behavior is toxic and overwhelming for me and it's going cause you to do abuse and control me and bring down my low self esteem and give me anxiet... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages |
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Posted: 11 Jan 2017, 3:37 pm
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| Most of these are written from a personal standpoint and that's the point. There's no golden standard and one red flag does not the demise of the relationship make I think. What works for one person does not for the other. If it wasn't the case, everyone would be after the same small ideal group and... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages |
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Posted: 11 Jan 2017, 3:33 pm
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| Anyone going to the bar really still wants to be single and play the field, IMO. What any bar? Do you really think that people can't go out and have a drink with friends at a bar without playing the field? Actually, in this stage in my life since I stopped drinking any alcohol, I want a Hunny that ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages |
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Posted: 11 Jan 2017, 2:51 pm
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| He has his red flags; you have your red flags - why are you all attacking him? He's not your boyfriend. Here I am adding one: Implying what others' red flags should be and shouldn't be is a red flag for me :p. I wasn't trying to attack anything/anyone. Just approaching the matter from an other poin... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages |
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Posted: 11 Jan 2017, 12:56 pm
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| It's a red flag to me and I've NEVER seen a relationship where a women likes to go bar hopping last; not once. What's a red flag to you exactly, just if a girl is out somewhere having drinks? And well in my relationship me and my boyfriend drink at home, we have also gone out to bars and such to dr... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages |
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Posted: 10 Jan 2017, 5:15 pm
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| Thanks you all. Confirms I'm not bonkers myself... and probably dodged a bullet before the really scary stuff reared its head. Really. A lot of people are incredibly skilled at fooling others. Wish I knew how to notice it from the get go. Hurtloam, totally on point there. Feral botanist, I suspected... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages |
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Posted: 10 Jan 2017, 12:55 pm
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Even as a smoker I hate the smell, it's why I go outside 
I have medicine to help quit but it intensifies your mood aaaand let's just say now isn't the best time  |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages |
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Posted: 10 Jan 2017, 11:17 am
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| Rush to be in a relationship. Willing to buy everything for you and do nice things for you and not ever expecting you to pay for anything nor having a job. Love bombing, this is a trap even though it's not always a red flag but this is a tactic abusers use to lure their victim and then they are cod... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages |
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Posted: 10 Jan 2017, 10:58 am
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| - putting you on an unrealistic pedestal very early on - including saying "I love you" within a week This might depend on the situation, at least the "I love you" part. I knew couples who were already friends and really fell in love as friends before officially dating so they sa... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages |
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Posted: 10 Jan 2017, 10:31 am
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| - putting you on an unrealistic pedestal very early on - including saying "I love you" within a week This might depend on the situation, at least the "I love you" part. I knew couples who were already friends and really fell in love as friends before officially dating so they sa... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Has your personal style ever attracted the wrong people? |
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Posted: 10 Jan 2017, 10:27 am
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| Its very likely because in anime they have brightly coloured hair, like blue or green or pink. I get hit on by middle aged guys so I don't know what that says about the way I look :cry: Trophy wife material? Just kidding, some of them tend to hit on everything (mid-life crisis and what not), sp don... |
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