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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: To all the bitter men

 Post subject: Re: To all the bitter men
Posted: 13 Jan 2017, 9:20 am 

Replies: 263
Views: 13,561


Just from a female perspective, having a long term relationship is difficult for female Aspies too. For me at least. I can understand at 22 or whatever age that can be incredibly frustrating and just hope that maybe this can help: love you first. Be happy with who you are, undefined by "scoring...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages

Posted: 13 Jan 2017, 2:53 am 

Replies: 239
Views: 8,529


So disregarding multiple requests to back off after crossing various boundaries - before even really dating - by still texting... in your opinion? I'm serious, your answer seems really rational. Atm I feel really rude not replying but don't want to make him think i want contact after he actually sc...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages

Posted: 13 Jan 2017, 2:48 am 

Replies: 239
Views: 8,529


Raleigh wrote:
I'm still stuck on the tissues with jizz on the dresser. 8O

Yeah, I'd be out of there too.
Messy I can sort of handle but not full on filth.



I couldn't read past that sentence either :lol:

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages

Posted: 12 Jan 2017, 8:29 am 

Replies: 239
Views: 8,529


When she is like "If you don't/do do that, then no sex for you this week" = This would warrant an immediate break up for me, in other term she views sex as a reward/punishment/blackmailing tool for a wanted action instead of something she equally desires to do it with her man. Disgusting....

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages

Posted: 12 Jan 2017, 4:28 am 

Replies: 239
Views: 8,529


When she is like "You are a man, you must provide me X, Y and Z because I am the woman"; and showing such gender-based entitlements. When she asks "How much is your salary? / How much you make?" (I have been asked this literally on a first date, twice). When she is like "If...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages

Posted: 12 Jan 2017, 3:17 am 

Replies: 239
Views: 8,529


When she is like "You are a man, you must provide me X, Y and Z because I am the woman"; and showing such gender-based entitlements. When she asks "How much is your salary? / How much you make?" (I have been asked this literally on a first date, twice). When she is like "If...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages

Posted: 12 Jan 2017, 3:14 am 

Replies: 239
Views: 8,529


Just a quick thanks to all of you. Though I would have a total shutdown when I first posted, just driving myself insane doubting myself and whether or not I did one/multiple things / everything wrong. You made me feel like I wasnt alone. Like its ok to have boundaries and preferences and in short i...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages

Posted: 11 Jan 2017, 8:26 pm 

Replies: 239
Views: 8,529


Just a quick thanks to all of you. Though I would have a total shutdown when I first posted, just driving myself insane doubting myself and whether or not I did one/multiple things / everything wrong. You made me feel like I wasnt alone. Like its ok to have boundaries and preferences and in short in...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Am I doing Better?

 Post subject: Re: Am I doing Better?
Posted: 11 Jan 2017, 8:16 pm 

Replies: 5
Views: 381


Sounds like things have gotten better! Congrats! Remember to do things at your own pace so that you don't "overload" - can be frustrating when that happens!
Carpe those diems and enjoy discovering your full potential 8)

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages

Posted: 11 Jan 2017, 8:10 pm 

Replies: 239
Views: 8,529


I think the idea of hard and fast rules for red flags doesn't away work. People are complex beings. Take things at you own pace. Relationships about respect, so it goes with out saying that both parties need to be considerate. If you are compatible you will be doing this anyway. I don't mean some p...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages

Posted: 11 Jan 2017, 8:06 pm 

Replies: 239
Views: 8,529


Well here's an annoying thing. For the past few weeks a video about spotting a narcisist has been popping up on my Youtube feed and the day I actually want it, it's no where to be see. Murphy's law. Here's on that is a bit close to the bone. I started watching and I was like, um, this is a bit hars...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages

Posted: 11 Jan 2017, 8:00 pm 

Replies: 239
Views: 8,529


I think the idea of hard and fast rules for red flags doesn't away work. People are complex beings. Take things at you own pace. Relationships about respect, so it goes with out saying that both parties need to be considerate. If you are compatible you will be doing this anyway. I don't mean some p...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages

Posted: 11 Jan 2017, 4:20 pm 

Replies: 239
Views: 8,529


So, I'm wrong because to be on the safe side I consider bar hopping a red flag, even though there may be a small percentage of women who goto bars and are decent? Do I have that right? Yes, that's right. You might be missing out on a very nice young lady, due to your bias against bars, if you hear ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages

Posted: 11 Jan 2017, 4:13 pm 

Replies: 239
Views: 8,529


Final clarification of reasons for my post: - my intention was not to start a male or female bashing fest! There are tons of good guys and women and we all have our preferences. We're are different stages in our lives, have varying tolerances for example certain lifestyle choices (smoking drinking ...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages

Posted: 11 Jan 2017, 4:09 pm 

Replies: 239
Views: 8,529


In response to someone's post who wrote about someone could have an ASD or a personality disorder, I don't care what disorder anyone has, if any of your behavior is toxic and overwhelming for me and it's going cause you to do abuse and control me and bring down my low self esteem and give me anxiet...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Red flags in dating? Early stages

Posted: 11 Jan 2017, 4:07 pm 

Replies: 239
Views: 8,529


So, I'm wrong because to be on the safe side I consider bar hopping a red flag, even though there may be a small percentage of women who goto bars and are decent? Do I have that right? Yes, that's right. You might be missing out on a very nice young lady, due to your bias against bars, if you hear ...
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