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Philologos
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05 Mar 2011, 11:09 pm

"the bigger self-righteous arsehole of any conversation is quite a convincing and powerful tool toward controlling people "

Dear me.

Language!

I will temporarily assume the colon implies you are describing me, not addressing?

I will further assume your smiling thingy is meant to be disarming, marking humor rather than a hard-hitting critique?

But I am known to misread these things.

But, really! Self-righteous?

I happen to be - izibongo zami, did I say this? - a lifelong teacher focussed on language, son of teachers focussed on language, grandson of two lawyers, great grandson of a preacher. I care about clarity of language and thought and have a lot of old fire horse syndrome correcting papers and classroom performance.

So I bring the stuff out. As others bring out their stuff.

Controlling people? Well, when I had the Professor nameplate on the door I could excercise some control over those actually enrolled in my courses. These days? My wife controls me. I give advice to her and Number 1 Son.

Anyone else feel resisting me is futile?

I see little sign I have controlled certain people into independent thought and checking their facts.



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06 Mar 2011, 12:18 am

ROFL, no!

This:

naturalplastic wrote:
Absolutely.

Everyone in the human race is brainwashed, except me, and anyone who agrees with me.

That just goes without saying!


techstepgenr8tion wrote:
Philologos: I think he's taking a stab at brainwashing people ;).

Seems like brow-beating and being able to come off like the bigger self-righteous arsehole of any conversation is quite a convincing and powerful tool toward controlling people (and no doubt he's joking but - somewhat right at the same time). Brow-beating and self-exaltation is strong stuff toward convincing people that your superior to them and that they should lift you up.



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06 Mar 2011, 12:45 am

It's the medium. I suspected that, but no matter how many Smily Wileys you insert [are WE supposed to be sure what the expressions depicted imply?] ambiguities remain.

And in this case I decided to roll with it, especially because I believe this is the first time I included in my izibongo my great grandfather. By all accounts a jerk, but at least the profession of journalist turned preacher fits my verbal fetish better than my other great grandfathers, one farmer, one inn-keeper, and one accountant.

The preacher and the innkeeper are the most interesting careerwise. The innkeeper made the serious mistake of going in as a partner with his brother who, I am told, consumed more than his fair share of the establishment's liquor.



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06 Mar 2011, 1:40 am

Well, if I gave you the chance to vent about family at least some good came of it.



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06 Mar 2011, 4:12 am

MCalavera wrote:
Are we all brainwashed to a certain extent? Or is it just a select "few" who adhere to religious/cultic views?

And if not brainwashed, but influenced, then what's the difference exactly?


You mean we have values and opinions?

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06 Mar 2011, 10:24 am

Some may deny your value or mine, but ain't nobody going to claim we got us no opinions.