Adoption: Moral?

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Whether you realize or not, adoption is pretty much the same thing as letting a total stranger in your house, only they're there to stay, and are legally part of your family.

Look at Citizen Kane. Did you really think the guy who adopted Little Kane when he was a kid really gave a s**t about how he'd turn out? It's obvious he wanted him to be a marketable entity.

Bio parents can be the same.So who would you give the child to??What do you suggest we do with a dumpster baby,give the child back to crack head mommie??So she can later pimp the child out?or get drugged out and leave the kid in a car with the windows up in summer.
Casey Anthony was a great bio-mommy,wasn't she??
Let's hear your plan for unwanted kids.

You're getting me in a corner.

Abort. Problem solved.

Not if it's too late to abort. That is what happened to me the first time I was pregnant. The second time I went to Planned Parenthood right away and got an abortion.

After that they gave me the 5 year birth control implants and by the time they came out I didn't have sex any more so I didn't have to worry about getting pregnant.

Must you always bring yourself up?

Who else am I going to bring up?

For others they might not want to do an abortion because they consider it to be killing a baby or against their religion. Maybe the baby got taken away after it was born because they were neglectful or abusive.

Crackhead mommy can't afford an abortion and is too zonked out to even know she's pregnant until too late.
14-year old molested Jennifer can't pay for an abortion and ran away from home, pregnant.
25-year old just became a widow and cannot afford to support the near-term baby that is growing in her belly.

What happens to these babies?

^Know what I'm playing? World's smallest violin.

I swear to God, if some rottencrotched woman I'm married to insists that we adopt, two things will happen.

1) I dump her.
2) The little bastard will wear my anger all over his face everyday he goes out in public.
3) Immediately after the adoption, I leave town.

I do hope any woman who you somehow manage to get into a relationship with does a bit of background reading to know what you're like. You're unlikely to have to worry about dumping her. I'm no expert on what women look for in a man, but I strongly suspect that it's not misery and moaning...

You don't have to worry about that. Adoptions can't happen if one partner is completely against it.

So I guess all your anger about adoption is you projecting your feelings of hatred for adopted children on others? I don't see why you'd hate the adopted child so much when they never did anything to you.

You'll never be in that situation anyways because no women will ever want you. From what I've seen you post you hate women so I don't know why you would even get with one.

I'd hate the adopted child because it wouldn't be mine. Without leaving some trace of my existence via a successful reproduction, I might as well not exist.

Not everyone feels that way and some would love to be parents so bad that they would want any child. There is nothing wrong with wanting one of your own that is genetically related to you though.

I personally don't ever want any children. I think I'd be an awful mother and I don't like human babies.

Then, a month or so after the baby is adopted, they're on Nancy Grace lying their asses off about how a black guy made off with their "heart and soul".

You guys were backing me into a corner on this thread.