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23 Jan 2013, 8:16 pm

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mercifullyfree, have you ever asked those children whether or not they wished they weren't alive? You are looking at it from only one relatively narrow perspective (quite possibly with a feministic agenda). You assume they didn't ask to live, but how do you know that's how each one of them feels? What if some of them actually look forward to a brighter future?


Feministic agenda? There is something wrong with women having equal rights and being considered complete people?


I only said it's an agenda.



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23 Jan 2013, 8:16 pm

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It's not part of the woman's body. It's inside her body, yes, but it's its own person.

to a woman that wants it gone, it could sometimes be seen as a parasite. not necessarily as a person. you speak in absolutes.


Right, but her perception doesn't absolutely negate the right of that parasite.


By the same logical argument she should be forbidden from ridding her body of disease?


Yep, fetus is now a disease.



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23 Jan 2013, 8:17 pm

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Don't take things too personally.

No,its not as if we were talking about human beings here.


Fetuses are not human beings. They're a disease. You're definitely right.



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23 Jan 2013, 10:27 pm

Whilst I'm all for abortion too, but I still think a "fetus" is close enough to a "baby" that I couldn't call it anything negative in comparison to a child that's just been born or one that's close enough to be; both are parasites if you want to call one such but the other not. I'm technically a parasite to my mother, and I'm running at 31.

Semen ain't anything by itself. Eggs ain't anything either. But get them going together, and something resembling a baby comes from that, then it's as clear cut as I can see it.

It's creation of life.

Do people say it's not because it makes it easier on the people who go through with it? Well, if the pregnancy was unplanned, then said consenting adults (teenagers included) should have taken the proper care to not actually make a baby; calling it not a baby human is a nice way to feel better for yourself, but said fetus will be born into a human -- it's already set in motion. Killing sperm cells isn't going to. The same with eggs. Rape? No worries there as it's unplanned without choice.

Don't have any stake in the politics of this, but fetus turning into a born child is cause and effect. Both are utterly dependent on people to survive too.


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23 Jan 2013, 11:41 pm

MCalavera wrote:
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Don't take things too personally.

No,its not as if we were talking about human beings here.


Fetuses are not human beings. They're a disease. You're definitely right.

About time you saw the light of day



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23 Jan 2013, 11:53 pm

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24 Jan 2013, 1:44 am

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24 Jan 2013, 2:38 am

Most women wouldn't want an aspie baby and would abort them if they knew its an aspie ahead of time they would abort it.


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Most women wouldn't want an aspie baby and would abort them if they knew its an aspie ahead of time they would abort it.


I agree with you, and they eventually will figure out how to test for such.

But, that's the law.


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24 Jan 2013, 4:04 am

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Most women wouldn't want an aspie baby and would abort them if they knew its an aspie ahead of time they would abort it.


I agree with you, and they eventually will figure out how to test for such.

But, that's the law.
That's heartbreaking and worries me but that's reality and its her body her choice.


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24 Jan 2013, 4:08 am

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That's heartbreaking and worries me but that's reality... .


Done with Down's all the time, and people with Down's can be just as happy and nice as anyone else (often nicer I've found); modern medical care has been able to fix many of the congenital problems they experience too, so their lifespan is longer.


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24 Jan 2013, 5:51 am

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It's not part of the woman's body. It's inside her body, yes, but it's its own person.

to a woman that wants it gone, it could sometimes be seen as a parasite. not necessarily as a person. you speak in absolutes.


Right, but her perception doesn't absolutely negate the right of that parasite.

that isn't an absolute right, as you pointed out. so there is no need to consider that right, apparently.


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24 Jan 2013, 6:04 am

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Whilst I'm all for abortion too, but I still think a "fetus" is close enough to a "baby" that I couldn't call it anything negative in comparison to a child that's just been born or one that's close enough to be; both are parasites if you want to call one such but the other not. I'm technically a parasite to my mother, and I'm running at 31.

Semen ain't anything by itself. Eggs ain't anything either. But get them going together, and something resembling a baby comes from that, then it's as clear cut as I can see it.

It's creation of life.

Do people say it's not because it makes it easier on the people who go through with it? Well, if the pregnancy was unplanned, then said consenting adults (teenagers included) should have taken the proper care to not actually make a baby; calling it not a baby human is a nice way to feel better for yourself, but said fetus will be born into a human -- it's already set in motion. Killing sperm cells isn't going to. The same with eggs. Rape? No worries there as it's unplanned without choice.

Don't have any stake in the politics of this, but fetus turning into a born child is cause and effect. Both are utterly dependent on people to survive too.

people use language intentionally. words like "baby" and "human" and "life" are used as tools to try to soften people's minds so that abortion becomes a horrifying choice. words like "bundle of cells" and "embryo" and "foetus" are more neutral. but for people that have a thing growing inside of them that they want removed, it can be seen and spoken of as a parasite. i've seen that word used on this very forum, and i've heard it in real life. it's not rare or particularly shocking, except perhaps to the people want to preserve some sort of sanctity or dignity to the thing that is growing inside the uterus. if you use a certain word, that word will carry meaning as to your politics.


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24 Jan 2013, 6:35 am

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It's not part of the woman's body. It's inside her body, yes, but it's its own person.

to a woman that wants it gone, it could sometimes be seen as a parasite. not necessarily as a person. you speak in absolutes.


Right, but her perception doesn't absolutely negate the right of that parasite.

that isn't an absolute right, as you pointed out. so there is no need to consider that right, apparently.


As you said, there are no absolute rights. And this applies to mothers as well. And to all human beings.



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24 Jan 2013, 6:39 am

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It's not part of the woman's body. It's inside her body, yes, but it's its own person.

to a woman that wants it gone, it could sometimes be seen as a parasite. not necessarily as a person. you speak in absolutes.


Right, but her perception doesn't absolutely negate the right of that parasite.

that isn't an absolute right, as you pointed out. so there is no need to consider that right, apparently.


As you said, there are no absolute rights. And this applies to mothers as well. And to all human beings.

so then what is the point of this conversation, exactly?


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