puddingmouse wrote:
Have you ever actually 'taken' a girl's virginity?
Nope. And the chances of that happening some day are about as close to zero as you can get. It is much more likely that a giant turtle will swallow the Earth than that I will take some poor damsel's virginity.
puddingmouse wrote:
It's pretty traumatic for the guy as well as the girl....If I was a guy, I'd not want the responsibility. It's heavy stuff.
Just based on conversations that I've overheard--it is pretty much the opposite of traumatic for the guys. The guys get bragging rights.
And, you wouldn't want the responsibility? I can't imagine a guy, the week before his wedding, saying "My fiancée is still a virgin, and I don't want the responsibility of taking her virginity. I hope that I can find someone to perform this task for me." It wouldn't be hard at all to find someone.
I think that most guys who take a girl's virginity are pretty proud of their accomplishment.