The_Walrus wrote:
qawer wrote:
I agree. The more ego-centric you are, the more normal are you considered.
This does not chime with me. If anything, more egocentric people are disliked more. People who are selfless are praised, valued and desired.
Not true...
I gave up studying a degree to care for family members.
I stood up for someone being bullied and was turned on myself by those bullies
I will help anyone I am able to help in whatever way I am able to help them when I am well enough to do so (I had a number of years of chronic health problems myself during which time people just walked away and left me to struggle by myself).
Yet here I sit alone with no one (my close family are deceased now), no friends, no partner...
I did not do it to earn points as I genuinely cared about people and wanted to see them well and happy...
In return they abused me, punched me, rejected me, kicked me, ridiculed me, raped me and so on...
The world admires the egocentric. The bullies of society. Those who are the cruelest go the furthest. The rest get trampled on by them as they charge through without giving a s**t about anyone but themselves.