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11 Jan 2017, 7:47 pm
smudge wrote:
ASPartOfMe wrote:
smudge wrote:
Also, consider the bias of the type of people who come to those support groups, they are likely going to be the worser cases, not the people who have managed to adapt and fit in amongst their NT friends. Even then, those groups attract the jerks and those who sexually assault too. Not the majority, sure.
The person that comes to a support group has to be "high functioning" enough to be able to get to the location of the meeting. They have to have some desire to go to a strange location and have social interactions with people they have never met.
I've known very high functioning aspies who couldn't get out the house, and I'm talking Oxbridge type education, who also speak like NTs but with huge vocabularies.
The ones I've seen at the support groups I've been to, are often obviously different. Most of them are fine, and may have moderate learning difficulties or other co-morbids. Some are a***holes. I don't mean people who I've argued with, bitchy people or trouble makers, I mean physically violent and or have other problems. There are creepy men sometimes that go to those groups and scare the women and higher functioning off. That's not uncommon either. When I ran a support group, this woman came along and was very inappropriate. She obviously had other issues too, but she took the piss out of the new rules we set so we could accommodate her, and we had to ask her to leave.
Dare I ask what some examples of that behavior by creepy men might be? I want to know, so I can avoid doing it myself. Just kidding.
But I'd seriously like to know.
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11 Jan 2017, 10:01 pm
Kraichgauer wrote:
Raptor wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
Raptor wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
Raptor wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
I am not going to hunt it up, since both you and I, as well as others, know that you have, and I'm hardly so vindictive or anal to waste my time on something like that.
But why are you so easy to fly off the handle when I point out that jocks tend to be bullies? Any real Aspie has bad memories of being sh*t on by jocks while growing up. Strangely enough, you don't. Why is that?
But why are you so easy to fly off the handle when I point out that jocks tend to be bullies? Any real Aspie has bad memories of being sh*t on by jocks while growing up. Strangely enough, you don't. Why is that?
Couldn't find nothin, huh?
As I said, I didn't even care to look. I'm hardly that anal.
Really working hard at getting this thread locked, arent you?
Nothing anal or vindictive about providing proof of your assertions about me, especially when it's so easy to obtain.
Even if it is anal and vindictive (it's not) it's more honorable than what you've sunk to here.
No, you're anal and vindictive because you attacked my post out of the blue. If you don't like our interactions, then don't address my posts.
Still no luck at finding where I defended jocks, eh?
Well bless your heart for trying.
You've defended jocks and bullies.
No I haven't.
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And I've told you already, I'm not nearly as vindictive and anal as to hunt through thousands of pages of posts just to find something I could care less about proving, as I recall you having posted it.
What???
Am I to believe that you're so inept at internet use that you can't figure out how to use the search tool? Maybe more plausibly you can't find any dirt on me defending jocks and bullies because there is none to find. What you're doing now is at least borderline trolling and that's being polite on my part.
Grow up
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11 Jan 2017, 10:02 pm
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11 Jan 2017, 10:07 pm
Raptor wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
Raptor wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
Raptor wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
Raptor wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
I am not going to hunt it up, since both you and I, as well as others, know that you have, and I'm hardly so vindictive or anal to waste my time on something like that.
But why are you so easy to fly off the handle when I point out that jocks tend to be bullies? Any real Aspie has bad memories of being sh*t on by jocks while growing up. Strangely enough, you don't. Why is that?
But why are you so easy to fly off the handle when I point out that jocks tend to be bullies? Any real Aspie has bad memories of being sh*t on by jocks while growing up. Strangely enough, you don't. Why is that?
Couldn't find nothin, huh?
As I said, I didn't even care to look. I'm hardly that anal.
Really working hard at getting this thread locked, arent you?
Nothing anal or vindictive about providing proof of your assertions about me, especially when it's so easy to obtain.
Even if it is anal and vindictive (it's not) it's more honorable than what you've sunk to here.
No, you're anal and vindictive because you attacked my post out of the blue. If you don't like our interactions, then don't address my posts.
Still no luck at finding where I defended jocks, eh?
Well bless your heart for trying.
You've defended jocks and bullies.
No I haven't.
Quote:
And I've told you already, I'm not nearly as vindictive and anal as to hunt through thousands of pages of posts just to find something I could care less about proving, as I recall you having posted it.
What???
Am I to believe that you're so inept at internet use that you can't figure out how to use the search tool? Maybe more plausibly you can't find any dirt on me defending jocks and bullies because there is none to find. What you're doing now is at least borderline trolling and that's being polite on my part.
Grow up
Never used your search tools, ever. I guess I'm as inept at computers as John Podesta, which you Trampanzees use to justify Putin hacking his computer.
And if anyone needs to grow up, it's you, as you're the one who attacked me out of the blue.
Now go and say your prayers to Trump tonight.
11 Jan 2017, 10:20 pm
Kraichgauer wrote:
Raptor wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
You've defended jocks and bullies.
No I haven't.
Quote:
And I've told you already, I'm not nearly as vindictive and anal as to hunt through thousands of pages of posts just to find something I could care less about proving, as I recall you having posted it.
What???
Am I to believe that you're so inept at internet use that you can't figure out how to use the search tool? Maybe more plausibly you can't find any dirt on me defending jocks and bullies because there is none to find. What you're doing now is at least borderline trolling and that's being polite on my part.
Grow up
Never used your search tools, ever. I guess I'm as inept at computers as John Podesta, which you Trampanzees use to justify Putin hacking his computer.
Whatev....
Quote:
And if anyone needs to grow up, it's you, as you're the one who attacked me out of the blue.
From page 4 of this thread:Raptor wrote:
^
Knew you couldn't pass up the opportunity bring your jock-o-phobia to this.
Maybe try some new material...
Knew you couldn't pass up the opportunity bring your jock-o-phobia to this.
Maybe try some new material...
Hardly an attack by any rational standards. It's calling you out for trying to hijack this thread. Why am I saying "trying"? You have hijacked this thread with your jock-o-phobia which had noting to do with this thread.
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Now go and say your prayers to Trump tonight.
You wish...
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11 Jan 2017, 10:44 pm
Raptor wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
Raptor wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
You've defended jocks and bullies.
No I haven't.
Quote:
And I've told you already, I'm not nearly as vindictive and anal as to hunt through thousands of pages of posts just to find something I could care less about proving, as I recall you having posted it.
What???
Am I to believe that you're so inept at internet use that you can't figure out how to use the search tool? Maybe more plausibly you can't find any dirt on me defending jocks and bullies because there is none to find. What you're doing now is at least borderline trolling and that's being polite on my part.
Grow up
Never used your search tools, ever. I guess I'm as inept at computers as John Podesta, which you Trampanzees use to justify Putin hacking his computer.
Whatev....
Quote:
And if anyone needs to grow up, it's you, as you're the one who attacked me out of the blue.
From page 4 of this thread:Raptor wrote:
^
Knew you couldn't pass up the opportunity bring your jock-o-phobia to this.
Maybe try some new material...
Knew you couldn't pass up the opportunity bring your jock-o-phobia to this.
Maybe try some new material...
Hardly an attack by any rational standards. It's calling you out for trying to hijack this thread. Why am I saying "trying"? You have hijacked this thread with your jock-o-phobia which had noting to do with this thread.
Quote:
Now go and say your prayers to Trump tonight.
You wish...
I was simply commiserating with some other members who had either suffered under jocks as kids, or had mentioned how jocks had hurt others. So yes, you did attack me out of the blue, considering the context of my remarks.
The only one who's hijacked this thread is you, because you've turned this thread into an attack on me.
Now be a good boy, and say your prayers to your carrot head messiah.
12 Jan 2017, 2:45 am
Kraichgauer wrote:
smudge wrote:
ASPartOfMe wrote:
smudge wrote:
Also, consider the bias of the type of people who come to those support groups, they are likely going to be the worser cases, not the people who have managed to adapt and fit in amongst their NT friends. Even then, those groups attract the jerks and those who sexually assault too. Not the majority, sure.
The person that comes to a support group has to be "high functioning" enough to be able to get to the location of the meeting. They have to have some desire to go to a strange location and have social interactions with people they have never met.
I've known very high functioning aspies who couldn't get out the house, and I'm talking Oxbridge type education, who also speak like NTs but with huge vocabularies.
The ones I've seen at the support groups I've been to, are often obviously different. Most of them are fine, and may have moderate learning difficulties or other co-morbids. Some are a***holes. I don't mean people who I've argued with, bitchy people or trouble makers, I mean physically violent and or have other problems. There are creepy men sometimes that go to those groups and scare the women and higher functioning off. That's not uncommon either. When I ran a support group, this woman came along and was very inappropriate. She obviously had other issues too, but she took the piss out of the new rules we set so we could accommodate her, and we had to ask her to leave.
Dare I ask what some examples of that behavior by creepy men might be? I want to know, so I can avoid doing it myself. Just kidding.
But I'd seriously like to know.Sure. One guy somehow found out this other group I went to, and followed me to it. He made out to my then boyfriend on Facebook that I was the kind of person to make people want to commit suicide. There was this other man who again followed me to the group I went to when he found out I went there, and he would keep staring at me. He was about 20 years older than me, and his eyes "lit up like lanterns" when he heard I was going to visit this group...so I didn't go. He put off other women too.
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12 Jan 2017, 2:55 am
smudge wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
smudge wrote:
ASPartOfMe wrote:
smudge wrote:
Also, consider the bias of the type of people who come to those support groups, they are likely going to be the worser cases, not the people who have managed to adapt and fit in amongst their NT friends. Even then, those groups attract the jerks and those who sexually assault too. Not the majority, sure.
The person that comes to a support group has to be "high functioning" enough to be able to get to the location of the meeting. They have to have some desire to go to a strange location and have social interactions with people they have never met.
I've known very high functioning aspies who couldn't get out the house, and I'm talking Oxbridge type education, who also speak like NTs but with huge vocabularies.
The ones I've seen at the support groups I've been to, are often obviously different. Most of them are fine, and may have moderate learning difficulties or other co-morbids. Some are a***holes. I don't mean people who I've argued with, bitchy people or trouble makers, I mean physically violent and or have other problems. There are creepy men sometimes that go to those groups and scare the women and higher functioning off. That's not uncommon either. When I ran a support group, this woman came along and was very inappropriate. She obviously had other issues too, but she took the piss out of the new rules we set so we could accommodate her, and we had to ask her to leave.
Dare I ask what some examples of that behavior by creepy men might be? I want to know, so I can avoid doing it myself. Just kidding.
But I'd seriously like to know.Sure. One guy somehow found out this other group I went to, and followed me to it. He made out to my then boyfriend on Facebook that I was the kind of person to make people want to commit suicide. There was this other man who again followed me to the group I went to when he found out I went there, and he would keep staring at me. He was about 20 years older than me, and his eyes "lit up like lanterns" when he heard I was going to visit this group...so I didn't go. He put off other women too.
That is creepy, indeed!
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