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It's true though.
The OP says that she believes she won't be loved if she does not meet the requirements of "stereotypical" beauty. The responses reassure her that she does which completely misses what I believe the issue to be, which is that women do not have any roles in Western society other than to please men. Even women who have had children try to hide it by getting back to their pre-pregnancy weight. Their desirability to men is more important than being recognizable as having children. It should be the opposite.
Oooo, that opens the whole gender stereotype worm-can that the only other significance women have is fulfilling stereotypical female roles - like having children.
But I do agree with you philosophically. In a perfect world, the OP would be loved for being awesome, regardless of the size she is. She would not have to feel anxious about being "hideous" and that all her value depends on if men want to have sex with her.
Anyway, big women may not be
stereotypically beautiful in western societies - but they
can be beautiful regardless of their weight is the point.
Sorry about the thread hijack, xxZeromancerlovexx ! !!
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