cathylynn wrote:
sly279 wrote:
That's real easy to say when you have a relationship and it's a sentiment often said by people who have relationships. You hardly if ever hear it from single people who desire relationships.
It's a sentiment of often seen from the haves on any issue or subject.
You just don't get it. Which is lucky for you.
Als again I don't base my entire happiness on it
But let me put it this way would you be happy with a car that only has two wheels and just drags on the other side?
i was single until i was 52. i was generally happy. your argument doesn't stand up. i was driving a fully functioning car. i just had no passenger. one of the worst times in my life was when i was engaged in the 80's. he hit me several times and threatened to kill me. sometimes single is better.
My point is without a SO my life is incomplete and as long as it's incomplete I'll never be happy. Nothing I do means anything without someone to share it with. For social people being secluded and cut off from human contact is hell freaking hell.
I'd gladly be in a abusive relationship it's probably the only kind I'll ever get. Lots of women seem to be verbally abusive anyways.
I was already phycisally and sexually abused growing up. My life is s**t and having no love only makes it worse. Nothing good in my life matters as I have no one to share it with.
I'm glad you and many aspies are able to be content and happy alone but can't you accept that others can't and never will be happy alone?
Why must everyone have the same way to happiness?
We can have gays and straight and trans etc everyone can be different except in how they find happiness?
You find happiness your way and I'll find it my way. Can't change what and how you find happiness anymore then what gender your attracted to. Same as inoverts and extroverts. There's isn't one and only one way to happiness