Clearly No Longer A Friend

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http://youtu.be/VxRyEV55Lhk

I felt compelled to show you another form of cyber-bullying. So here's a story of a friend I had. I really mean, "HAD". So awhile ago, we were friends and we were close. I thought we connected very well for both of us being on the autism spectrum and had some common interests. What really tore us apart was mostly his part of the friendship. There were many times where he would constantly address problems I have and treat the friendship as if it were supposed to run a certain way. In fact, I was always there for him and got past flaws like any actual friendship until he crossed the line. The video certainly went beyond the line. Well he would tell me to give him a chance to talk, and yes, I do understand that and it made me aware of how I talk to people and the direction of the conversations I had. I had been working on it throughout our duration. So, he starts to criticize me and become more critical and take his anger out on me at one point. He asked me if he could go to my dad to see how he could deal with me and the "a**hole" even went to my best friend to ask, and of course she didn't care to help him and never did. He would tell me stories about his life but yet when I would, he said something like "talk to me about your life when its necessary" He said me talking about my downs is apparently unimportant in a friendship. This all happened in one night what I am about to say next: He randomly said he wanted to take a break from being friends and then immediately apologized thereafter, and then went back down the slippery slope and said stuff like: What if i started giving you the middle finger in school? You won't let me control you., and many more ridiculous things he said. And then he tried so hard to be friends again. I eventually cut it off and told him to f**k off in other ways. The text message I sent that he reenacted, was a response to him being the person I could never deal with. Overall, he went from great friend to MAJOR F***ING A**HOLE PSYCHOTIC OBLIVIOUS B***H. Well then, I hope i said enough details here. Ask me more about if you like, also report the video if you want. This video really deserves to be taken down.

Those were pretty nasty things you said to him if you did say them.

Yes, i did say that. I know it was extreme, basically i was being an a**hole back. I tried to be firm as a friend but then it couldn't work.

I don't know if that would be cyberbullying. If that were true he would be leaving constant attacks about your on wrong planet. As for what you wrote to him I don't think you were nasty. Maybe a little harsh but at least you got the word out.

Yeah, I did get the word out. I want to take this post down because now I think about it, it was unnecessary for me to even post it. I didn't realize posts were permanent. But now I'm not so mad like I was at that time.