My extended family is louche
I must have posted about this topic before, but now since the ISIS "threat" is growing, and oil prices are crashing, and house prices are over valued, I'm left in a terrible position. Long story short, I was given a diagnosis as a paranoid schizophrenic - even though my symptoms are debatable and I've been diagnosed as autistic - and I was locked up in a osych ward for four months.
The only reason the crisis team was able to put me in there was because when I stated I felt suicidal to my "aunt" she forwarded the email to some other relative, who then called the crisis team. They showed up unannounced unti I was evicted for propping shopping bags underneath a fire door. They constantly called me until they said they would put me in a hotel until they found me a place. They instead drove me to a hospital.
Now, I have to lose the weight by crash dieting (don't tell me your opinions on crash dieting, I'm not going to listen, it works and that's all that matters to me) because if I don't lose the weight then I'm not suited to work in high end or trendy retail stores which limits my job options.
On top of that, since they refused to let me stay in one of their five bedrooms in their duplex, I doubt they'd let me stay with them if N.America were to enter a real state of economic depression like 1929. They let their 21 year old son stay there for no rent and he has no job. They also let my "aunt" stay with them whenever she needs it because she is too cheap to rent a hotel.
They have literally taken away years of my life where I might have been able to work part time and save, make friends etc. because being in that asylum drove me to insanity and boredom. I over ate and ruined my body with 40 lbs. They truly believe I'm still sick and need help, but I don't do anything that warrants it.
I don't hear or see anything that isn't there like everyone else in the hospital. Not to mention the people who actually tried killing themselves.
I had my life ruined because somebody thought I was a paranoid schozophrenic, only because they wouldn't let me stay with them in their middle class mansion.
Also, their reasoning is garbage. They say that I couldn't sleep in their duplex because it would have woken my great grandma up when I entered the house. Except, they all live in the same house now!
Like I said,
And this is verbatim, I was evicted for constantly arguing with my landlord about the noise the new fire door was making. I would prop bags underneath to hold the door open. They told me to show up to court or face eviction. I figured I'd take eviction since I didn't think they would or could evict me for propping open a fire door. Well they did, and I was given seven days to leave. On the last day, i left and I received call after call from the crisis team. Eventually after refusing to meet with them, they told me they would put me in a hotel. They lied and showed up with a psychiatrist which disgnosed me as such in under a minute, didn't listen to what I said other than "this is hitler-esque" talk after they told me they were going to take me to the hospital.
I don't know why they won't let me stay with them. They have taken away power from me. I use to be able to wear my clothes I liked which don't fit now. I use to go to lots of social gatherings, even if by myself, now I've lost confidence and the little influence I had as an attractive, young English speaking male.
Their logic escapes me. They bought a Walmart gift card for me for Christmas even after I told them I wasn't coming. I said to send it if they really cared how I was doing, and they said "well we'll just send it to somebody who will appreciate it". I would!
They told me to stop seeing them as the enemy, and see them as people who are trying to help me.
Umm, the last time I checked only enemies call the cops on each other and calling me yourself would have helped. They promised me when I moved into my last place that if I ever needed help I could ask them for it. Then they suddenly revoke that invitation.
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