Do you get the impression that people don't like you here?

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Rather than be in denial I chose to recognize the fact that I am rude and misunderstood quite often.

Oh for sure

I can get real ignorant and abrasive sometimes, and there's probably no misunderstanding involved in that. People probably don't understand how hard I try to keep that part in check, but it's pretty irrelevant because no matter how hard I try, the results are mixed at best.

Sometimes but I don't care because I wouldn't be here still if I did care. I bet I am seen as a troll here by some people and seen as a b***h and rude and one member here sees me as aggressive. Maybe I'm seen as a fake aspie too because I am different from the other aspies. I know I am seen as a b***h by some people but they are usually assholes and they tend to think different than lot of people. Lot of people think I'm nice and think I'm rude sometimes. I have been accused of role playing an aspie too one time by some stupid person all because that person is so stupid he or she thinks autistics can't have a diaper fetish so anyone with it must be a fake aspie.


I stopped caring in my early teens about people not liking me. Who cares if they don't like me, they just don't know me very well or they aren't nice people, they are ignorant, etc. People will dislike anyone for lame reasons. One of them is disliking me for liking Benny & Joon and Spokane. If anyone ever sees me being mean to someone, then that person is probably an as*hole or a bully, or stupid or ignorant and so ignorant that person refuses to listen when I corrected that person and I do hate those people and have no respect for them. I sometimes like to give them trouble and make fun of them because that is how much they piss me off.

kinda hard to when i barely come on here...so my post has no purpose.

*does Irish jig* okay now it does.

I don't dislike anybody here. I don't have reason to feel disliked either... I hope.

This forum is sooo much larger than the other one I'm active on. Over there, it's pretty much the same posters all the time, varying from section to section. A lot of us even know each other by our real names. With so many members here, I can see where people may feel unnoticed. I'd be lying if I said I've never felt that way on here. I just know (or think ) it's nothing personal - it's just easy to get lost in the shuffle.

If people here dislike me, they've been remarkably quiet about it. I'm fairly certain that most people here don't care about me one way or the other.

Ha, I thought about creating this thread so many times that it isn't even funny(yes it is ). I feel like this alot. Sometimes I think people think I'm too aggressive, and just avoid me, and other times i think they just plain don't like me. There's a handful that i consider friends, a handful that are friendly, and a handful that I forget have been friendly to me(terrible memory for names). That doesn't sound bad, but for the majority of the time i spend here, it feels like I'm alone, even though people are all around me. Hmm....Maybe I'm just boring?


Who knows?

Look everybody who really cares if your liked or not? I have accepted that I'm different from everyone else. And i use it to my advantage. I'm not a sheep and like the fact that my biggest advantage is that i do things that make me happy.

Who wants loads and loads of people on your case? Phone never stops, people asking favours all the time.

I believe that the key to ASD is being yourself and letting others follow you, and if they don't they tend to have a s**t life...

I do have one Question to throughout... How do you upload a profile picture to your profile,
that is more then 16kb? Private message would be great thanks.

Somehow I get the impression that a lot of WPers don't like me, particularly for the stances I've taken on eating disorders and homosexuality. Not to mention that I've brought up positive things about Catholicism & Christianity in my posts.

But, y'know, that's what I get for being in the minority of public opinion around here. :/

I always expect to be unnoticed or disliked so I would not be upset if it were the case. But surprisingly it seems that many people actually notice and like me on here..? Which I still can't bring myself to comprehend, let alone accept.



But it doesn't matter. I post for me

HOLY CRAP I just noticed a lot of you guys have >1000 posts.

But on topic...
A lot of times I'll make a post that, after re-reading it, seem like I take too hard of a stance, or comes off as sounding like self-wankery, or doesn't contribute. Or is annoying, whatever. Oh so insecure... lol

If a poster has an avatar, I'm much more likely to remember them, so having an avatar myself kind of puts more pressure on posting. That probably sounds absurd, and I like my avatar too much to remove it.

I only disliked one person in this board. If you're not jumping to reply something spiteful right now then I'm sure it isn't you.

I do feel that there is a lot of favoritism and elitism on here.

I don't hate anyone here; there are a few (no one's posted yet) that do occasionally get tiresome.

It's no use hating; the energy you wast on someone who's not worth your time can better be spent elsewhere...

Sometimes I think the 'hating' business is just the flip side to loving. 'Hate me, or love me, but CARE! dammit...

I assume people don't really like me here because I don't like myself to much and I'm not able to use my "skills" here in a constructive way (unless someone wants a few intermediate-beginner 3ds tutorials )

For what's its worth I like you guys, you seem cool and a lot more articulate than myself, maybe it's just my age

I don't really know what people think of me on here, I don't think I've posted enough for anyone to have a detailed picture/opinion of me.