Does Anyone Else Get Random Crushes On Random People?

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12 Feb 2017, 3:03 am

I don't know if it's normal, or because I have Autism or because I'm just different. It happens a lot, which is weird and awkward.
I don't know how to explain this and I'm terrible at explaining things.

It is usually on girls, sometimes on guys. I'm Bi.
I was seeing a psychologist a couple of years ago, and I had crush on him, sometimes it happens with people in the store.
Personally, I hate it, because no one thinks of me that way, and there is no chance, so it's really just a big inconvenience.



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12 Feb 2017, 3:25 am

I know how it is. I get crushes on just about anyone who's willing to spend time with me. I think it's because I feel so inferior and not worth their attention. For me it's inconvenient because I am happily married! I'm not looking for anything more than friendships. It just automatically happens. I don't know. Maybe it's not really a crush so much as putting people on pedestals.



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12 Feb 2017, 7:46 am

My current crush is on tennis player Denis Istomin. He seems like such a nice man and I love to watch him play.



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12 Feb 2017, 7:11 pm

I'm bi too but my longterm crushes tend to be more on guys.

Giovanni was my last random crush triggered by reading Bulbapedia one night.


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12 Feb 2017, 11:20 pm

I crush very randomly. The last time I crushed was on a woman at work. I called her Sweet Pea.


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12 Feb 2017, 11:43 pm

I crush.
Males or females, young or old, attractive or not attractive.
There is just something that strikes me about that person and I'm smitten.


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14 Feb 2017, 1:36 pm

I very rarely have crushes.


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14 Feb 2017, 6:44 pm

I also notice that I also sometimes get crushes if someone is spending time with me. Maybe because I'm starving for a connection?



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14 Feb 2017, 10:36 pm

Even though I am in a relationship with a straight female, I am bisexual and even though I accept being bi, it's a distraction whenever I crush on someone at random.


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14 Feb 2017, 11:02 pm

Yes. Too much for my own good.