I also gave off gay vibes, probably still do, think its the whole eye contact thing and strange little ways, and I am flattered If a guy comes onto me, that someone could find me atractive, but that aint my cup of tea, but if they become ratty to me in response of my rejection, then WTF ffs! just go away!
But like a typical male, I like watching girls kiss each other, strait bi or gay, dont matter, just so nice, to me anyway, I'm trying not to come over pervy/letchy as thats wrong and horrible, just couldnt put it simpler, I watch it on you tube, but its when girls say how wrong and horrible it is on youtube, well yeah great, so why did you search for it and watch it in the first place!? something there trying to hide by outwardly fighting it like theres something to prove!? I dont need to look for guys kissing on youtube to comment how horrible it is.
If you could tell her how it makes you feel, if shes ok she'll understand and respect you, if she not ok then shes not realy a freind and you can move on? god i wish life was that simple sometimes.
Good luck with that one