do any of you have resentment towards your family?

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do you resentment your whole family or just a family member?

A SLIGHT one between my parents, but nobody else aside from that.

Sometimes. I only hold resentment when they make crude remarks, like my sister made one about me being aspie once that I took offense to.

Slighty against my sister for what she has done over the past ten years.

Yes, apart from the few happy years when they put me in a Childrens home, my life was a living nightmare, my Stepfather would beat me around the head, address me as *unt where the missing letter is a C, he would kick me in the stomach, strangle me, send me down to the shops with sixpence to buy a stick so he could beat me with it, very frightening for a 5 year old.

I had to stay alone in my bedroom from about 5pm until school the next morning, my Childrens Society report states I didnt even have sheets on my bed.
When I was fed a proper meal, it was disgusting things like sheeps hearts with boiled potatoes that made me feel physically sick to eat, so I had to sit alone in the kitchen in front of this plate of cold offel for 5 or 6 hours as I just couldn't eat it.

Stepfather would try and teach me French, if i couldn't pronounce the words correctly he would punch me in the side of the head which made things worst as I went into complete withdrawal and my brain would stop working which would really annoy him, mother would stay in the Kitchen and do nothing to protect her son, she wonders why I never want to visit them.
Mother was not allowed to hug me or even play with me as it set him off in a violent temper.

I used to punch myself repeatably in the face to try and teach myself not to talk in their presence as it could result in violence or at the least verbal humiliation, but then I would be turned on for being too quiet and be called "creeping Jesus".

I grew up in a bad home but I now relise what can you do? I guess this is the most important thing and why all major spiritual leaders stress forgiveness. It really does eat you alive and destroys your life to dwell on the past and all the bad things that happend to you. the best thing to do is move on, I guess.

Yup, at my mom for leaving us, I don't hate her, I just dislike how selfish she IS.

I resent my parents for trying to make me into an NT by getting angry at me for having special interests and talking about them. They feel that there should be a cure and they tried to live their desired lives through me. None of that stuff worked. The memories caused me to have a breakdown on spring in the Late 90s.

I resent everyone in my family. My father for being a lowlife sack of s**t, my mother for marrying my dad out of desperation, my sisters for treating me like a retarded seal, and my brother for his irresponsibility. All my relatives can burn too for all I care.

One of my brothers because he was a drug addict almost my entire life and tried to call me when I was 19. Resented him ever since.

Also my uncle and his wife for doing something really horrible and nasty to my mom right after her father died. Don't like them too much.

hey everyone. ill share my resentments as well. i resent everyone in my family. i resent my 3rd oldest brother for making my life hell growing up, my sisters for their rude bluntness and name-calling, and my great-aunt for being an as*hole to me. i dont have both of my parents in my life and my family never wanted to deal with me because they think im retarded and special needs. i could care less about those shitheads you call family. they can kiss my ass.

One towards my "father" as he likes to call himself. Mr. Narcissist with a god complex, no thank you!

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Sounds like there's some 'parents' and family members who think that a child, especially an Aspie child, is their personal punching bag, physical or psychological.

Sylkat