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12 Jan 2015, 2:27 pm

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Hmm...I think it has its ups and downs. Sometimes I can be a bit too preoccupied with keeping things orderly and organized, occasionally to a point where it can disrupt my life. It's definitely some mild to moderate form of OCD.
Perhaps somewhat paradoxically I am rather neurotic and at times have been like I had OCD, probably am still. It has been worse in the past though. But despite probably being more neurotic than most people I have met this does not translate into my habits of cleaning my room.


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I'm not keen on cleaning, either--but it has to get done some time.

I tend to wait a bit too long.

If you don't clean, your body starts to itch from all the dust!

I do feel that I probably get affected in some way by the dust or if it's something else. I seem to feel a bit better when my room is clean.



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12 Jan 2015, 3:22 pm

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I think I have you all bested in the worst mess category. :oops: two words- "goat trails."


Oh, MY!! Your goat(s) poo-pooed in your HOUSE?!? Yeah, YOU win!! LOL

nono, no poop. a goat trail is that skinny little path between the bushes that animals leave in the brush in the woods. I just used that analogy to describe the little pathways between my stuff in me tin can, that is how I get from point A to point B therein. NO POOP. so far.



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12 Jan 2015, 3:55 pm

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I think I have you all bested in the worst mess category. :oops: two words- "goat trails."


Oh, MY!! Your goat(s) poo-pooed in your HOUSE?!? Yeah, YOU win!! LOL

nono, no poop. a goat trail is that skinny little path between the bushes that animals leave in the brush in the woods. I just used that analogy to describe the little pathways between my stuff in me tin can, that is how I get from point A to point B therein. NO POOP. so far.

I lived like that when I rented a room from a family. Now fortunately I have my own tiny apartment with a storage space in the basement, so instead of piling up s**t in my room I throw it in the basement. I have lots of stuff there that I just keep because I'm afraid there's something important buried in that mess. Chances are it'll all just stay there for years until I perhaps move or something, at which point I'll probably just take it all to the municipal rubbish dumb. That day I'll probably feel like a burden was lifted from my shoulders, like an angel on clouds.



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12 Jan 2015, 3:58 pm

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I lived like that when I rented a room from a family. Now fortunately I have my own tiny apartment with a storage space in the basement, so instead of piling up s**t in my room I throw it in the basement. I have lots of stuff there that I just keep because I'm afraid there's something important buried in that mess. Chances are it'll all just stay there for years until I perhaps move or something, at which point I'll probably just take it all to the municipal rubbish dumb. That day I'll probably feel like a burden was lifted from my shoulders, like an angel on clouds.

one thing that I tried to stay on top of, is to keep all my important papers in once place, so whatever rubbish I have is mainly rubbish [but GOOD rubbish] with nothing truly important that needs to be segregated from it. so why not go down to the basement and go through it just to make sure there are no important papers or things in there?



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12 Jan 2015, 4:08 pm

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I lived like that when I rented a room from a family. Now fortunately I have my own tiny apartment with a storage space in the basement, so instead of piling up s**t in my room I throw it in the basement. I have lots of stuff there that I just keep because I'm afraid there's something important buried in that mess. Chances are it'll all just stay there for years until I perhaps move or something, at which point I'll probably just take it all to the municipal rubbish dumb. That day I'll probably feel like a burden was lifted from my shoulders, like an angel on clouds.

one thing that I tried to stay on top of, is to keep all my important papers in once place, so whatever rubbish I have is mainly rubbish [but GOOD rubbish] with nothing truly important that needs to be segregated from it. so why not go down to the basement and go through it just to make sure there are no important papers or things in there?

Yeah I try to do that too, keep important papers in one place. I didn't think so much about that in the past but now I try to do that. But I'm not very good at it, I keep losing stuff. As for my basement, there's probably thousands of items there in one big mess. I thought I would take just a tiny bit every weekend and sort out anything I want to keep and try to get rid of the rest. And if I did that a few months or something it might be finished, it might even go quicker than I thought. However, that has not happened yet and probably never will. I'll probably come to the conclusion that if there is something I could live without for years then I probably don't need it anyway, and I'll just dump it all.



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12 Jan 2015, 4:16 pm

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Yeah I try to do that too, keep important papers in one place. I didn't think so much about that in the past but now I try to do that. But I'm not very good at it, I keep losing stuff. As for my basement, there's probably thousands of items there in one big mess. I thought I would take just a tiny bit every weekend and sort out anything I want to keep and try to get rid of the rest. And if I did that a few months or something it might be finished, it might even go quicker than I thought. However, that has not happened yet and probably never will. I'll probably come to the conclusion that if there is something I could live without for years then I probably don't need it anyway, and I'll just dump it all.

the way I did it [I was a reformed slob at one point and was neat briefly before it all gradually went to hell again :oops: ] was to mark off little sections that I would clean and be done with that section, then move onto the next section, and so forth, until the whole place was tidy. having to do the whole thing at once is an insuperable thing but not bits at a time which anybody can do.



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12 Jan 2015, 4:22 pm

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Yeah I try to do that too, keep important papers in one place. I didn't think so much about that in the past but now I try to do that. But I'm not very good at it, I keep losing stuff. As for my basement, there's probably thousands of items there in one big mess. I thought I would take just a tiny bit every weekend and sort out anything I want to keep and try to get rid of the rest. And if I did that a few months or something it might be finished, it might even go quicker than I thought. However, that has not happened yet and probably never will. I'll probably come to the conclusion that if there is something I could live without for years then I probably don't need it anyway, and I'll just dump it all.

the way I did it [I was a reformed slob at one point and was neat briefly before it all gradually went to hell again :oops: ] was to mark off little sections that I would clean and be done with that section, then move onto the next section, and so forth, until the whole place was tidy. having to do the whole thing at once is an insuperable thing but not bits at a time which anybody can do.
Hell was an appropriate word. I was talking about the stuff in my basement storage compartment though. It's a cage with a padlock, and I've just put banana boxes, plastic bags and such with stuff in them and old junk all on top of each other. Also I don't have a car so getting it to the dump is a hassle. Waiting for the car that comes outside regularly is a bit of a hassle too. But I might rent a car or something to get the stuff I don't want to the dump. Not sure if I will try to look through it for things I might want to keep or if I will not do that.



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12 Jan 2015, 4:28 pm

My room is often a physical manifestation of my mental state. It is currently a mess :P

I also have a bit of a hoarding problem, mainly with books and newspapers...


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12 Jan 2015, 4:31 pm

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Hell was an appropriate word. I was talking about the stuff in my basement storage compartment though. It's a cage with a padlock, and I've just put banana boxes, plastic bags and such with stuff in them and old junk all on top of each other. Also I don't have a car so getting it to the dump is a hassle. Waiting for the car that comes outside regularly is a bit of a hassle too. But I might rent a car or something to get the stuff I don't want to the dump. Not sure if I will try to look through it for things I might want to keep or if I will not do that.

it is my considered opinion, that your stuff deserves to be combed through for stuff you may be damned glad you went through the trouble to re-find and rescue from permanent oblivion. who knows what irreplaceable treasures you may find? it's worth it.



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12 Jan 2015, 5:18 pm

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My room is often a physical manifestation of my mental state. It is currently a mess :P

I also have a bit of a hoarding problem, mainly with books and newspapers...

Hoarding problem yeah I have that to some extent, hence all that junk in the basement. A lot of times instead of getting rid of junk right away I keep it even though I really don't need it, and then I don't have the energy to comb through it and just pile it all up somewhere, like in the basement.

I think a teacher said to me that the state of our lockers is a reflection of our mental state. I have much later come to the insight that in that case, i.e. being in school, any form of mental disorder is a sign of sensitivity and sanity. I had a period where I tried hard to be the other way around in school, get good grades etc. Then my locker was Nazi strict. I cleaned out my room at home to the extent of being sterile. And only focused on school work. Later I crashed though, to find a much better thing, psychosis. (yes, better than career and girlfriends)



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12 Jan 2015, 5:59 pm

auntblabby wrote:
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auntblabby wrote:
I think I have you all bested in the worst mess category. :oops: two words- "goat trails."


Oh, MY!! Your goat(s) poo-pooed in your HOUSE?!? Yeah, YOU win!! LOL

nono, no poop. a goat trail is that skinny little path between the bushes that animals leave in the brush in the woods. I just used that analogy to describe the little pathways between my stuff in me tin can, that is how I get from point A to point B therein. NO POOP. so far.

Oh, THAT'S good!! Yeah, I, pretty much, just have those little paths, TOO. I'll get real ambitious, every once-in-awhile, and, like YOU said, clean an area----but, STILL, no one, but me, would know I had made any progress, cuz it's STILL, a MESS!!

Do you live in one of those little, silver travel-trailers? That's what I've always pictured, when you've said "tin can".




The reason why it's bothering me so much, right NOW, is because of what Tomato said----I've lost stuff. It USED to be that..... I've ALWAYS had piles of crap----but, I knew what was in each and every pile----and, right where to find it----NOW, it's just totally out-of-control!!

Oh, and HOARDING----that's ANOTHER thing. Like, if you've ever seen a segment on TV where somebody helps a hoarder (I've heard about that show on cable, but I don't have cable), I don't hoard like that----like, those people go-out and buy stuff, and bring it home, and put it in the corner, or something----I don't buy tons of stuff----I just don't ever throw anything, AWAY!!

Also, someone said something about books and newspapers, I think. Well, for ME, it's that as well!! I've always wanted to be a fashion designer, so I have about a thousand-and-one Vogue magazines. I'll study the designers, and the fashions, and then pile 'em up. Plus, all of my books----I could practically open my own, small library----everything from fashion design, to medicinal herbs, to politics, to autobiographies----and, of course, the obligatory novels!! LOL What got me so desirous, recently, to clean-up, is that I'm missing a couple of treasured BOOKS----and, THAT is just not acceptable!!



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12 Jan 2015, 7:09 pm

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What got me so desirous, recently, to clean-up, is that I'm missing a couple of treasured BOOKS----and, THAT is just not acceptable!![/b][/color]

yeh, it usually takes a crisis like that to boot my booty into high gear and start cleaning and tidying and organizing.



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12 Jan 2015, 7:11 pm

Absolutely. Whenever I have a room, within a week's time it's almost guaranteed to be a mess. I'm trying to keep things a little bit tidier here though, since I'm staying at my grandma's place.



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12 Jan 2015, 9:48 pm

I hated cleaning my room as a kid but I don't nowadays. The 3 jobs I had involved cleaning(dish-washing & other two were custodial) so I've gotten kind of used to it. I still hate doing certain aspects but I don't let too much mess pile up.


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