What have people commented about you repeatedly?

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"You're so quiet"
"You're nice"
"You don't look like you have a teenager"
"Nice hair"

I don't like it when people tell me I'm 'nice.'

"You look so sad."
"What's wrong?"

Pretty much everything you mentioned!

Negative Comments:
- "You don't even try"
- "You are on your own planet"
- "You don't understand"
- "If only you would just think before you speak or do something"
- "You are not making any sense"
- "No one understands you"

Positive Comments:
- "You always say funny and ridiculous things"
- "You have a big heart"
- "You always look so put together"
- "You are very perceptive"
- "You always have interesting ideas"
- "You are a smart person"

--I don't smile enough (I don't like smiling...what part of that is so hard to understand?)
--I need to be more sociable (Why? I'm happy with my own company.)
--I'm lazy
--I'm selfish

"You're an odd duck."
"You need to get out of the house more."
"You need to go make friends."
"You're stubborn."
"You can't be any older than 18."
"You talk too loud."

"You're posh."
"You're pompous/arrogant/judgmental."
"You interrupt people."
"You go too far with expressing your opinions."
"You talk too much."

On the plus side, I've also been told that I have a nice hair colour and good general knowledge.

The usual-- too quiet, antisocial, smart, lazy, weird, hard headed. Someone told me once that if you told me there was a brick wall in front of me, I wouldn't believe you until I smashed my head into it.

"Why are you so quiet?" - story of my life!
"You're so cynical"
"You mumble a lot!" - only when I'm anxious and my brain doesn't work in time with my mouth!
"You're being pedantic again"
"You never talk!" I would love to but I can't get in a word because you never shut up!
"Stop stuttering!" - I wish! Anxiety usually effects this.

"Why are you smiling?" (When laughing at a personal joke that is in my head)
"You are so quiet"
"Don't roll your eyes at me" (I never roll my eyes when someone is looking at me)
"Smile you look angry"
"Shhh. Stop yelling" ( I talk loudly to my parents because they are hard of hearing)
"Okay! You don't have to be so mean!" (When debating something in class and the other student begins to lose)
"Are you alright?" (When concentrating)
"You are always in you room. Don't you want to go out with your friends?"
"God do you like anything?" (When expressing my dislike of something. Apparently NTs can dislike something without any logical reason but when I do it, with several valid reasons to supporting my opinion, I am being unreasonable)
"You are so picky" (I am particular about how I like my food. So sue me)
"Just let it go it is not a big deal" (when something goes wrong I want to assess the situation so I know what mistake was made so I can avoid making the same mistake again)

- "You're too quiet."
- "Why are you smiling?"
- "Are you angry/unhappy? You look miserable."
- "Why are you making faces?"
- "Get your head out of the clouds."
- "Why are you moving so slowly?"
- "I asked you that minutes ago, you're answering now?"
- "You're mean." or "You use words as weapons."
- "You're too nice."
- "You remind me of an angel." (Honest to god, someone I used to work with said that to me over and over again! It was not a sexual advance - it was another straight woman. She seriously thought I looked - and acted - angelic. I guess I just have an innocent look about me. )
- "Are you deaf? I've said your name three times!" (I actually have excellent hearing, except in crowded, noisy places.)
- "You're so smart. How come I didn't think so at first?"
- "You're not that old." (Yes, I am.)
- "Why do you like to stay home so much?"

Your're so cute!
You're adorable!
Awww!
Are those your real boobs? (yes, thankyou for being so tactful)
and then on the opposite side
Your scary.
Stop staring at the bug and look at me when I talk to you!
I really don't want to know about that......
Stop crying.
We don't want you here. ( )