Are you attracted to any males outside your race?

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SierraBell
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14 Apr 2008, 1:19 am

*Question aimed toward females only*

I have noticed that I have an attraction towards black men. And I'm white! XD



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14 Apr 2008, 2:02 am

Not so far outside-but I'm repelled by blacks, honestly, though, I don't wonder why you are attracted as I can't assume to see into your head. Go where your soul takes you or go nowhere at all. Ironically black men are often attracted to me. I think it is a conspiracy.


I've seen lots of white women with black men, and a few black women with white men. It raises issues within those communities for some reason. For example, some black women are extremely offended (at their men) for preferring white women over their own kind.

It's not strange that you are an individual with individual preferences that affect the totality of your life, at all.


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14 Apr 2008, 2:18 am

I seem to be attracted mainly to men who are of the same ethnic background. Particularly from Irish/Scottish heritage. I think mainly it's a skin color thing. I prefer lighter skin tones. I have seen plenty of very attractive men outside of my own race though. Especially long haired Asians, Native Americans and bald African Americans.



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14 Apr 2008, 2:30 am

For instance,

I am attracted to some checks or serbs, poles, ukrainians, most russians (don't ask me why); but not to most laoations-go figure. I found a blue eyed spaniard to be pretty hot once. He turned out great offspring.


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14 Apr 2008, 5:39 am

Physically, I notice that I am attracted to men of certain hair types...longer, silky hair does it for me. Skin tones I do not notice as much.



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14 Apr 2008, 6:13 am

Yes, my guy is a nice shade of brown and I am attracted to brown eyed, brown skinned males especially Asians though I don't have a strong desire for romance, its more liking that look.



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14 Apr 2008, 3:21 pm

Yes, I have been attracted to men outside of my race. People of all races have unique attractive features about them, in my opinion.


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14 Apr 2008, 4:24 pm

SeaBright wrote:
For instance,

I am attracted to some checks or serbs, poles, ukrainians, most russians (don't ask me why); but not to most laoations-go figure. I found a blue eyed spaniard to be pretty hot once. He turned out great offspring.


:lol: I love the Russians myself :) and the Germans too. :D



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14 Apr 2008, 4:37 pm

The answere is yes. In fact I find all races attractive considering if they of course are attractive as a person....I'm not that vain or at least I wouldn't wanna think so. An attractive person can also come off as ugly, I'm not really into haughtiness or just looks. So, I guess what I'm trying to say is it takes more than someone's attractiveness and race to find them "attractive."

I hope what I said made any since at all. :oops:


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14 Apr 2008, 5:40 pm

Oh yes.
The same as, if not more so, than guys of my own race. I don't see race as a big deal at all, and I find the many variations in skin tone, facial structure, eye shape, eye color, etc. intriguing and often exotic, beautiful, and very attractive. I'm drawn to people who are different from me.
I don't know why. I just am.



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14 Apr 2008, 6:17 pm

I tend to be attracted physically to men within my own race.

I have been attracted to men of all races, but usually more for their personalities.

I like light skinned, heavily tattoed men.



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14 Apr 2008, 6:40 pm

SeaBright wrote:
Not so far outside-but I'm repelled by blacks, honestly, though, I don't wonder why you are attracted as I can't assume to see into your head. Go where your soul takes you or go nowhere at all. Ironically black men are often attracted to me. I think it is a conspiracy.


I've seen lots of white women with black men, and a few black women with white men. It raises issues within those communities for some reason. For example, some black women are extremely offended (at their men) for preferring white women over their own kind.

It's not strange that you are an individual with individual preferences that affect the totality of your life, at all.


Actually the only reason why I was chuckling about it we because I never used to be attracted to black men that way. Now I look at them compared to my own race and they are very hot and I am attracted to the dark complexion.



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14 Apr 2008, 7:24 pm

I have dated outside my own race, if a person attracts me, it doesn't matter what race they are. :)



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14 Apr 2008, 8:51 pm

I tend to like Indian guys for some reason....

I like guys of my own race too, but there's something about Indian guys...



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14 Apr 2008, 9:28 pm

XBelle89x wrote:
I tend to like Indian guys for some reason....

I like guys of my own race too, but there's something about Indian guys...
Indian? As in Native American Indian or Indian as in from India?