Question about kissing

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I had an NT Ex GF a long time ago who loved to stick her tounge in my mouth when we kissed Why do NT women love to do that? It felt like I was going to choke and gag. Do NT men do this to? Why? How do NTs not gag on the tounge?

I think just about everyone does it. Maybe your ex went a bit too far. Or do you tend to have a strong gag reflex? I don't have much of a gag reflex myself.

Different people do different things but kissing with tongue is usually considered pleasurable. It should not, however, be nearly far enough in your mouth for you to gag on it! Sounds like she was just a bad kisser!

-edit- or, per above, you just don't like french kissing. In which case the only thing to do is to let your partner know upfront so they don't try it.

I also do not like tongue. Only I like dry kiss to lips.
But I have not had even that for over ten years.

I have problems with extended making-out. I have to count seconds to last through it. I know it's important to my BF, so I do my best. Some of it is pleasurable. Some of it is gross to me, esp. the tongue kissing. I keep hoping I'll get over it.

I don't like it either.

the only time in my life i ever really copped to kissing was when i was completely bombed out on heroin, benzodiazepams and a beer.
those days are over.
i love the idea of kissing but the reality is somewhat different.

I don't like kissing at all regardless of if there is tongue involved or not. Eww!
The noise it makes is horrible, it sounds like an octopuses suction cups being pulled off of a hard surface (at least, I imagine it sounds like that as I've never even been near an octopus).

mmm.. this makes me think; is there an age where full on kissing becomes not pleasant?

I know I wouldn't like to see people my parents age ngaged in passionate 'face sucking'.

Can't really tell at what point tongue becomes TOO MUCH tongue. I'm a big fan of kissing with tongue, but also have a dreadful gag reflex, and have been with quite a few people who seem to think choking their partner with their tongue is sexy.

The first few times someone tried that with me, it was repulsive, because they either had a bad-tasting mouth or their tongue was all mushy feeling. I had one boyfriend (I use that term loosely, since it implies an actual relationship that wasn't there), who had an excellent technique, though, and that was awesome!

I don't do that with my husband much. On our honeymoon, we were kissing like that, and all of a sudden he announced that his filling had come out. I didn't feel the filling, but the thought of it grossed me out so much, that I haven't ever been able to tongue-kiss without thinking of that.

A little tongue can be nice. Too much is not nice.

I don't feel any extra intimacy when tongue is used. I've had bad experiences with French-kissing in the past... In fact, my first kiss ever was a French kiss. My current boyfriend is aware that I prefer pecks and any other closed-mouth kisses... and I'm aware that he's perfectly fine with French kissing.

Hmmm, anyway, let any future girlfriends or lovers know that you don't like it! That's the simplest thing. You could experiment, but don't pretend you like it just because your partner enjoys it.

Sounds like she stuck her tongue in way too far. She shouldn't be sticking her tongue far into the back of your mouth. That would make anyone feel like vomiting.