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22 Sep 2009, 4:35 pm
22 Sep 2009, 4:49 pm
Since being diagnosed with AS, I've made an effort to watch NTs in social situations and note what they talk about, how they start and finish conversations and how they make each other laugh. Don't worry, I've done that in a non-scary way. Standing over a group of fellow students while staring intently while saying absolutely nothing is a little bit weird, so I usually monitor my 'friends.' Garnering tips on how they manage conversations while trying to be part of said conversation isn't easy, so I feel like I've made little to no progress. Still, at least I have people who I could call friends, which is an improvement on 2 years ago. 
22 Sep 2009, 5:03 pm
Spazzergasm wrote:
no on has to hear my boring thoughts.
Pfffft. As if anyone else's thoughts are miraculously more interesting... It's all relative.
22 Sep 2009, 5:33 pm
22 Sep 2009, 6:03 pm
SINsister wrote:
Spazzergasm wrote:
no on has to hear my boring thoughts.
Pfffft. As if anyone else's thoughts are miraculously more interesting... It's all relative.
true. ive always had this inferiority complex, however. XD. and i know THEY would find my thoughts boring. XD. i tend to marvel beauty of mundane thinsg like eyebrows. (well, I think eyebrows can be quite attractive
)
actually i may very well be an NT.....so maybe my thoughts ARE boring. XD i hope i am AS, oddly enough.
22 Sep 2009, 6:04 pm
Hodor wrote:
Since being diagnosed with AS, I've made an effort to watch NTs in social situations and note what they talk about, how they start and finish conversations and how they make each other laugh.
Ditto - it's easy for me to do surreptitiously, since I work at a gym. In a nutshell: the convos are almost always superficial, facile, and boring. I have to fight for the patience to engage in that sort of trite crap.
MEH.
22 Sep 2009, 6:04 pm
JasonGone wrote:
i am me. they are them. you are you. it is all good.
lol, i really liked that for some reason
XD
22 Sep 2009, 6:09 pm
Spazzergasm wrote:
i tend to marvel beauty of mundane thinsg like eyebrows. (well, I think eyebrows can be quite attractive )
)Eyebrows can be fascinating, though. I'm kind of obsessed with certain types of brows, as well as with nose bridges and the area where the brow and bridge areas connect. Some are stunning, some hideous.
<---Weirdo.
22 Sep 2009, 6:11 pm
22 Sep 2009, 6:22 pm
22 Sep 2009, 6:35 pm
Aimless wrote:
...I can't pretend to care about what kind of car someone is driving (special interest excepted) or even more who got kicked off the island last night. I need diversity and substance and you know; it's actually hard work to talk about nothing.
Exactly. Being "normal" sounds insufferable.
Where's that vomiting smiley when you need it?
22 Sep 2009, 6:36 pm
SINsister wrote:
Spazzergasm wrote:
i tend to marvel beauty of mundane thinsg like eyebrows. (well, I think eyebrows can be quite attractive )
)Eyebrows can be fascinating, though. I'm kind of obsessed with certain types of brows, as well as with nose bridges and the area where the brow and bridge areas connect. Some are stunning, some hideous.
<---Weirdo.
THANK YOU! eyebrows make or break a face! and so does that little area you speak of. XD i pay great detail to these things. honestly if someone asked me what the perfect male looked like, i could go into scary detail. XD
22 Sep 2009, 6:38 pm
Aimless wrote:
I never had any desire to pretend to be something I'm not. Of course I know how not to create a scene in public but I can't pretend to care about what kind of car someone is driving (special interest excepted) or even more who got kicked off the island last night. I need diversity and substance and you know; it's actually hard work to talk about nothing. Hanging out with family is different.
i would take great interest in someone's car
yeah, it depends on the family. i am perfectly normal with my sis.
. wierd speech, hopping up and down beeping....
22 Sep 2009, 6:46 pm
Spazzergasm wrote:
honestly if someone asked me what the perfect male looked like, i could go into scary detail. XD
HAHA! YES! One of my "perfect males" is Chris Cornell, circa 1990, or thereabouts (imho, of course). Beautiful brows/bridge combo; perfect nose. Just one of my myriad of male obsessions.
22 Sep 2009, 6:54 pm
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