Passive verses Aggressive Aspies
dunbots wrote:
I've always been passive: if something's bothering me, I never outright say it, I always just let it boil inside of me.
This thread fits my personality (passive, that is) to the ground. I can't read all of it right now because I've had a very irritating week and cannot concentrate but I will be back
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Pandora_Box wrote:
I'm passive aggressive.
For the most part I am extremely calm and laidback. I have a very long fuse.
But if someone wears down my fuse and I have had the last straw, I explode.
For the most part I am extremely calm and laidback. I have a very long fuse.
But if someone wears down my fuse and I have had the last straw, I explode.
Usually passive-aggressive doesn't mean "both passive and aggressive", it means that instead of getting angry at people directly, you do little subtle things to irritate them or sabotage their plans or something without confronting them directly or saying why you are doing it (or even admitting that you're doing it). I'm mostly passive, sometimes aggressive, but never passive-aggressive.
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"In my world it's a place of patterns and feel. In my world it's a haven for what is real. It's my world, nobody can steal it, but people like me, we live in the shadows." -Donna Williams
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