AbleBaker wrote:
the_curmudge wrote:
This is a familiar experience for me. I've always looked young and never really assumed a fully adult role. There's me and there are "real" adults who are perceived as vaguely older. I am always surprised when some old man stranger strikes up a conversation as if we have something in common. First it's amusing, "He thinks we're peers." Then it's shocking, "We ARE peers! Really? When did THAT happen?"
I once had someone who didn't know me talk about "grandkids", assuming I had some. I thought, "grandkids?" Then I realised, "Oh, right, it's the gray hair."
I recently had the opposite happen. I was at a gathering with my fiance. Someone congratulated us, and then asked if we were planning to have children. I pointed out that I already had a grandchild. They looked shocked. What puzzles me, is that I am going gray at the temples yet they think I am young enough to have children still.
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