Kiseki wrote:
Wow, do I relate to that. I try to explain to people why I have no desire for a long-term relationship and they cannot understand at all. Yet, at the same time, I really long to have a soulmate I can discuss all sorts of deep stuff with.
Yeah, it's nice to have someone you can talk to about really esoteric and deep things.
I was kind of surprised to learn that people really do think not having a relationship is a horrible fate. I can't even imagine what it would be like for that to be one of my major problems.
Then again, it might be advantageous given how much trouble I have on my own, to have that kind of support. But I also know that being around someone that much is extremely stressful for me.