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23 Oct 2012, 2:08 pm

Ha! Ha!
My husband's (NT) "ah ha" moment was when I told him I'm like a horse. I have a hard time making correlations/intuitive deductions that two scenarios are the "same". I have to discuss details ad nauseum to come to the conclusion that they're the "same" despite differing facts.

Let me explain. When you work with a horse, you have to teach it through repetition and experience that assorted fences are all okay - a white fence is ok, a blue fence is ok, a wood slat fence is ok, a 4 ft fence is ok, a 6 ft fence is ok, etc. Sometimes it's hard for a horse to realize a white picket 4 ft fence is the same as a 6 ft high black iron fence. After a lot of repetition and experience the horse eventually can lump together "most of these things that look similar are fences" and to no longer be alarmed by new types of fences. Even then, sometimes they'll get hung up on a "new" fence that seems different from all the other fences they've come across and still freak out.

Anyone?



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23 Oct 2012, 2:36 pm

Neigh!



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I do get scared of things being moved or new things though kind of like a horse.


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23 Oct 2012, 6:00 pm

Same here. This is often a problem I have with applying instructions from one situation to another that I perceive to be different from the first where the instructions were given. I have often been told "It's the same, just do the same thing." But all I can see is what is different and where the exact same thing is wrong.


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23 Oct 2012, 6:34 pm

Yep, that sounds like me. My mom often says that "every day is a new day" with me. Which means that just because I am taught something one day, week or month does not mean that I'll remember to apply what I learned to that same or similar situations in the future.



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23 Oct 2012, 6:48 pm

I'm definitely not hung like a horse.



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23 Oct 2012, 6:56 pm

jdbob wrote:
I'm definitely not hung like a horse.

8O
did you really mean to say that out loud?
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23 Oct 2012, 7:19 pm

Yes. Yes I am.


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23 Oct 2012, 8:07 pm

patdbunny wrote:
Ha! Ha!
My husband's (NT) "ah ha" moment was when I told him I'm like a horse. I have a hard time making correlations/intuitive deductions that two scenarios are the "same". I have to discuss details ad nauseum to come to the conclusion that they're the "same" despite differing facts.

Let me explain. When you work with a horse, you have to teach it through repetition and experience that assorted fences are all okay - a white fence is ok, a blue fence is ok, a wood slat fence is ok, a 4 ft fence is ok, a 6 ft fence is ok, etc. Sometimes it's hard for a horse to realize a white picket 4 ft fence is the same as a 6 ft high black iron fence. After a lot of repetition and experience the horse eventually can lump together "most of these things that look similar are fences" and to no longer be alarmed by new types of fences. Even then, sometimes they'll get hung up on a "new" fence that seems different from all the other fences they've come across and still freak out.

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It looks what you've posted here is the "weak central coherence" problem in Autism..... Everything is unrelated and you have work out the relationships yourself. The analogies are not obvious.

One of my peeves is knowing or relating to people in one environment ( as in only one set of circumstances), and then suddenly meeting up in a different setting. I then lose my social coherence. It's a though you are starting from scratch......scary and weird.

I have a tincture of it and it crosses over into non-social common sense things. My mother used to say: " Everyday seems like it's your first day on Earth." :lol:



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24 Oct 2012, 6:53 am

This is one of the main reasons I am unable to drive.



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24 Oct 2012, 11:13 am

FASCINATING!

Sometimes I feel like an emu, too. Derp face going on and everything. Generally, I bust up laughing because I feel so ridiculous.

And thank you Mdyar for letting me know what it's called.



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24 Oct 2012, 12:37 pm

oh yeah, new people always activates the stubborn ass in me :D



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24 Oct 2012, 1:11 pm

hmmmm I never thought of myself like a horse before and I didn't know that about horses....but yes I do have to learn things through painstaking repetition and suck at generalizing things so I guess I am like a horse. :lol:



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24 Oct 2012, 1:28 pm

I am a horse on the Chinese Zodiac.... so yeah.... I am a Horse :lol:



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24 Oct 2012, 4:29 pm

IdahoRose wrote:
Yep, that sounds like me. My mom often says that "every day is a new day" with me. Which means that just because I am taught something one day, week or month does not mean that I'll remember to apply what I learned to that same or similar situations in the future.

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24 Oct 2012, 4:40 pm

My first full time job was diagnosing faults for a particular consumer ISPs customers. On the first day, a senior employee told us "Don't worry, if you have any questions or want to check anything, just come over and ask me" ...boy, did she regret saying that after two months of my endless questioning.


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