Problems with remembering to take a shower etc.

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I'm 19 years old with Aspergers (it's pretty light though) and I constantly forget to shower or brush my teeth, I understand why you need to take showers and managing your personal hygiene but every time I'm not about to do something important (like going out with my friends to a club, going to a weeding or similar activities when you really need to smell/look decent) I always forget to shower regularly and even up to something like five days if I don't get reminded. I want to improve but I always fall short. Anyone here have any tips for my problem?

I'm having the same exact problem! I am 17 going on 18 and have had this problem for over a year now. Luckily I have strong teeth. But my hair... it needs some recovering especially because I used to bleach it.

I don't forget to shower, but when I'm very depressed I just don't care about it and have to force myself. I do have an idea or two for that might help you remember if you want to try it.

Set some sort of special alarm that has a distinctive sound and goes off at whatever time you set each day. Not your alarm clock sound, because you want the eventually start associating that different sound itself with "it's time to take a shower". Now, I don't know a whole lot about technology but on my cheap little cell phone I can set different alarms at different times on different days and set the sounds to different ringtones. So if you were to set your regular alarm for whatever time you get up then set the second one to go off maybe 30 minutes later to remind you to shower, that might work. You might also need to put up some sticky notes on the bathroom mirror or leave notes for yourself at first to remind you what you set the second alarm for, but I'd think after a few days or so you would associate that sound with going and showering right then. And make yourself go do it too, right when the alarm goes off.

Also, when you are invited somewhere you could go ahead and set the alarm days in advance, when you get the invitation right away, and set it to go off maybe an hour or two before you leave home. After a few times of doing that it may become habit to just set the alarm in your phone to shower and start getting ready as soon as you are asked to go somewhere, and because you can do this days in advance on a phone, that could work out good.

I don't know what other technology is out there like that, but I'm betting you do. I'm almost 50 and don't keep up with that stuff, but my kids do and you are in that age group. Also, put up a note about brushing your teeth there in the shower too so you'll see it. Or you could just keep your toothbrush in the shower and brush in there like one of my kids used to do.

Good luck and let me know if that works for you.

It's not remembering to have a bath, it's remembering that the taps are running.

I have trouble remembering or bothering to do it too. My only suggestion is to do it at the same time every day. I should be bathing every day but not everyone needs to wash their hair every day.

I am 26 and still struggle with that. I generally remember on Saturdays because I get ready for church the next day, but according to social convention I need more showers than that.

I don't forget to take showers or clean my teeth. I just don't like doing it, and so have to force myself. Once I done it I do feel a lot better. I also hate washing my hair, and I have occasionally forgotten to do it, which is why I have set days where I do it so that I can plan it out better. Yes, washing my hair is my worst ever chore, which is why my brain hates remembering such a thing.

Humans are very passionate about hygiene. It seems to be one of the most important things if you want to earn respect. Like the other day at work I said, ''I haven't had a bath for over two months'', and everyone in the room stopped what they were doing and looked at me in shock. Then when I said, ''I've been having showers instead'', they all looked relieved and carried on doing what they were doing.

I am really into hygiene but sometimes I don't shower just because I am too tired. I ALWAYS do my teeth though. But if you don't shower every day I suggest you at least clean your face, armpits, and private parts every day even if it's just with a washcloth in the sink.

because I don't wanna end up with my teeth in a cup on the nightstand, I take regular diligent care of my teeth. but in terms of bodily cleanliness, the only thing that makes me bathe is that I hate being sweaty and oily and greasy and stinky. my tin can though, is like something outta "hoarders."

Late '20s here, person living with me reminds me to do it every week. Also have a strong dislike of water. It is good to have a person remind you. One idea is to recruit a friend to call you on shower day so that you can mentally prepare in the morning before you do it at night.

It's best to get into a strict routine with respect to personal hygiene. In my case, as soon as I wake up in the morning, I eat breakfast, then immediately go take a shower, shave, and brush my teeth. It's become so much of a habit that I honestly feel like my day is ruined if I can't do it, I feel gross for the rest of the day. I also brush my teeth again right before bed, but that one is harder to do as consistently because sometimes I'll be super-tired, and I'll just collapse before I can brush them.

Routine is your friend

So, part of our daily routine in our household is that my son and daughter have a bath after dinner, every night, before bed. This has been his routine for 6 years - should I not then assume that he will do this on his own when he is older - a teenager?