Go out and have some fun.

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It has occurred to me, after suffering a Panic Attack last month. That you shouldn't be focused on not what could be wrong with you or if you don't have a girlfriend or anything else like that. I realised and if anyone else, feels the way i feel, that i am an Aspie, living the life of an NT. Getting on the Beers with the boys, Playing Sport, Going on trips, Going to Festivals, Just living life. So my main point is GO OUT AND HAVE SOME F**ING FUN!! !. If you Aspie Males, are worried too much about finding a Princess, stop focusing on it. You're more likely to find someone or something in life when you realise that you're life couldn't get any better.

Patronizing post is patronizing.

The problem with that is not having anyone to have fun with. Who are these people I am meant to be going for a beer with? I'm not going to a bar by myself. I'll be bored out of my head.

Festivals are too busy and filled with rude, drunk, high loutish people. Why would that be fun, especially if I'm on my own?

Play sport with whom exactly? I suppose I could go to the gym by myself. Ok, so it's not all bad, I will book a gym induction.

Still foreveralone though, but I'm gonna be buff.

It does amaze me that people can go to festivals or cruises by themselves. I've been to restaurants by myself and to the movies by myself. I've even been to concerts by myself. Can't really say I enjoyed them, though. It's been a while since I've been to the cinemas by myself. I'm really overdue.

that does not "sound" like fun to me.

That go go go go sounds a like it would be very exhausting. I like things that are soothing and calming like disc golf where you might be with one or two people that you trust and it's quiet and beautiful and you are walking in the woods without a lot of extra talk. Or skiing or riding a bike on the rail trail where there is not ton of extra activity and noise and hussle and bussle. I guess we each have different ideas of what fun is. I am all for having fun and as much of it as we can but my idea of fun might be very different from someone else's. Like beers with the girls is definitely not my idea of fun at all.

Beers are good, trips are good depending on the kind and I am very picky about festivals I'd go if it was like a Metal music festival or with lots of beer and by beer I mean beer not coors or bud light or just a beer festival could be fun. Playing sports is something I'd rather not do....I'd rather go to a concert any day.

My main barrier to going out and having fun at the moment is lack of money.

If it were that f*****g simple, why wouldn't we all be "just having fun"? And why do you assume that everyone lives the same making life that you do?

Honestly, every time I visit this site, I leave feeling totally pissed off.

I think that sitting by the lake and staring at if for hours or looking at a painting alone in an art gallery is fun.

I can do that stuff only if I'm drunk. My liver says your argument is invalid.

I like to go out once in a while, but if I were to do it every day, I wouldn't be able to handle it, and my wallet certainly wouldn't be able to either. Partying is expensive, especially for someone like myself who needs to get liquored up to lower his social inhibitions to a level that allows for "normal" social interactions.

THat is hilarious