I do this a lot too
If it helps, NT's put their foot in it too.
My mum mentioned to my uncle in front of my cousin about the next meal out, and my uncle didn't want his son (my cousin) to go, as it's an adult sort of thing, but the son always insists on going.
Anyways yeah, now the son (my cousin) knows, and my mum feels bad for putting her foot in it.
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Your Aspie score: 187 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 25 of 200
AQ: 43
Empathy Quotient: 8
I have ASD, ADHD, Hypermobility Syndrome.