auntblabby wrote:
r2d2 wrote:
voleregard wrote:
: "glibness and superficial charm, grandiose sense of self-worth, cunning/manipulative, pathological lying, emotional shallowness, callousness and lack of empathy, a tendency to boredom, impulsivity, criminal versatility, behavioural problems in early life, juvenile delinquency, and promiscuous sexual behaviour."
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Frankly that describes my current boss to a "T" and at least a few former employers of mine as well. It is frightening to think that many of this horrible characteristics might actually be that kind of qualities that help some people achieve and move up the ladder to success.
in my experience it is the exceptional leader who is not at least a bit of a bastard.
That's such a good point! The book
Snakes in Suits is about sociopaths/psychopaths in professional positions. Because psychopaths superficially exude charm and personality, they can excel at interviews and reviews, using their manipulative knack. Then when they instigate problems (& they do!), those they hurt are too afraid to cross the sociopath. Sociopaths use others like pawns in their game and cheat the rules. In this way, sociopaths get away with bad behaviour, even elevating themselves to further power!
And I know, because I've met a sociopath.

While I shy away from labelling anyone as evil, sociopaths are the very definition of evil. Successful sociopaths are even scarier.
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The ones who say “You can’t” and “You won’t” are probably the ones scared that you will. - Unknown