I love music (most kinds of music), both listening and making. Every time I've had a teacher, though, she's felt that music is all about performance, audience, and what I learned I'd have to show off in a recital, and I get terrible stage fright. Best I can do with that is singing in choir, where nobody is looking at me in particular, but at the choir as a whole. But I don't think the love of the music is an aspie thing. Maybe the stage fright is.
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