A few years ago I joined a social group thing where you attend this place once a week and sit around a table doing art-related activities. I enjoyed the activities, but I didn't seem to make any friends. Each time I went there, I just ended up quietly listening to the louder ones talking, which actually relaxed me to the point where I didn't want to talk but listen to the interesting stuff they were talking about.
The club was mostly for people with anxiety, depression, PTSD, learning difficulties, and anything else that may affect a person's social functioning. I wasn't sure if there were other Aspies like me there. But a lot of them seemed religious and completely outside the norm (for example, don't care for iphones). I'm not religious at all, and although I'm eccentric, I still follow more trends than what I think I do.
I seem to make friends better and fit in better at work. Also I seem less shy at work.
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