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Azharia
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06 Jan 2008, 9:52 am

You guys all great. Thanks so much! :)



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06 Jan 2008, 10:01 am

gwenevyn wrote:
Relax. Eat healthy foods. Breastfeed if possible. Give your child the opportunity to see your face a lot. Pay attention to his (or her) cues and developmental stages but don't stress about every little thing. Throw most parenting books in the garbage, especially the ones that say "do it this way or your child will be forever scarred." Take him to the pediatrician regularly and report any concerns you have. Here in the USA we have programs that provide free therapies to infants and toddlers who do not meet developmental goals. Find out ahead of time if there are any such programs where you live. Look up information on encouraging language and/or social development in young children. Sign language helps kids speak sooner and express their needs before speech is possible. I really recommend signing with all babies and toddlers but most especially with those who are at risk for being on the spectrum.

Oh, and sleep when the baby sleeps. That's the advice we all ignore and wish we hadn't. :P


QFT!! !! ! I would add to read to him or her a bit, and have plenty of good books around, etc... Try to get him/her interested in worthwhile things, and learning in general.



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06 Jan 2008, 10:06 am

zendell wrote:
I would avoid fish due to mercury and take fish oil supplements instead. Some studies show people with autism and AS have trouble getting rid of mercury and even if not it isn't good for anyone anyway. After birth, I'd refuse vaccines do to the damage they can cause.


Please, do a lot of research before taking this advice. Find out if they are even using mercury in the vaccines, for one thing. There are a lot of very scary diseases that can be prevented with vaccines, things that can cause lifelong physical damage.



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06 Jan 2008, 7:54 pm

Thanks so much again. Totally giving this to Husband to read as well. :)



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06 Jan 2008, 8:25 pm

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But I am looking everywhere to see is there anything extra I should do with my genetic background to give my baby the best start.


Be prepared for less than perfection - not in the baby - all babies are perfect - but in your lifestyle. Be prepared for the house to be untidy etc, tiredness etc... Get your husband (and you too) to read some things about post natal depression and put some checkpoints on the calendar to ask yourselves whether you see any signs - perhaps once every two months?

I'm sure you'll be ok, but it's something you need to keep an eye on (my wife and I have been through it). Make sure that you and your husband take time out for yourselves both separately and together. Also - talk to eachother... a lot...