When most of the people around are crazy.

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Hi namaste,
I have not been through this exact situation myself. My advice to you is based on common sense really. You need to learn a new way of communicating without getting anxious and withdrawn. Common sense says you should do this first in a safe situation with an expert, then you can practice in the outside world. It is like learning to swim. You need some teaching outside the pool, then in the pool with the instructor. You can't just go straight to the deep end. I think if you go straight into organising a big event first you will probably fail the first time.

And yes, communication is very worthwhile. You often learn a lot about yourself and the other person, and it can be a growth activity. Sometimes this leads to friendship which is an excellent way to grow.

once i had gone for counselling the therapist suggested i meet a particular person and start talking with her because my main problem was lack of social interaction but i was petrified and didnt go ahead with it....i didnt call up the number she gave me
because i had fear how it would go.....infact i was suffering from extreme fear and phobia's those days