Do you miss someone right now?

Page 146 of 170 [ 2710 posts ]  Go to page Previous  1 ... 143, 144, 145, 146, 147, 148, 149 ... 170  Next

Richardf269
Sea Gull
Sea Gull

User avatar

Joined: 16 Dec 2012
Age: 40
Gender: Male
Posts: 204
Location: Isla Vista, California

16 Apr 2017, 6:14 pm

lostagain wrote:
Very much so. I was ghosted by somebody I liked very much several months ago, and can't seem to get them out of my mind/heart.

In fact, I don't even know if I want to forget.


I kinda know how you feel. Except I'm the one who's in love with a woman from 13 years ago and I never could let her go. I don't know if I can either. I thought we had an online relationship & I thought she was in love with me back then, but she (unintentionally mind you) busted my huge ego balloon and told me the exact opposite. I honestly just don't know how to feel these days. Most times I just feel empty inside right now, or really sad.



nurseangela
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 27 Nov 2014
Gender: Female
Posts: 8,017
Location: Kansas

16 Apr 2017, 6:29 pm

Joyce. Still can't believe she's gone.


_________________
Me grumpy?
I'm happiness challenged.

Your neurodiverse (Aspie) score: 83 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 153 of 200 You are very likely neurotypical
Darn, I flunked.


lostagain
Emu Egg
Emu Egg

Joined: 15 Apr 2017
Gender: Female
Posts: 4

17 Apr 2017, 12:33 pm

Richardf269 wrote:

I kinda know how you feel. Except I'm the one who's in love with a woman from 13 years ago and I never could let her go. I don't know if I can either. I thought we had an online relationship & I thought she was in love with me back then, but she (unintentionally mind you) busted my huge ego balloon and told me the exact opposite. I honestly just don't know how to feel these days. Most times I just feel empty inside right now, or really sad.


It's very hard to get over what might have been. I had a similar experience before and didn't learn! My problem is that I am very defensive when getting to know someone and instead of discussing what's happening, I seem to try to keep aloof - which must be ridiculously confusing for the other person!

Anyway, I was getting to know this guy and really liked him but now he's vanished so I have to pick up and get back on my feet and get back to living a life. But it's harder this time.. I guess I had more invested as I've been alone for a long long time.

But I do know that it gets better eventually - or at least it gets different :?

I wish I still had some sense of adventure or at least belief that the future will bring something good!



funeralxempire
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 27 Oct 2014
Age: 39
Gender: Non-binary
Posts: 25,496
Location: Right over your left shoulder

06 May 2017, 6:51 pm

Yes, I always miss her. :oops:


_________________
Watching liberals try to solve societal problems without a systemic critique/class consciousness is like watching someone in the dark try to flip on the light switch, but they keep turning on the garbage disposal instead.
戦争ではなく戦争と戦う


sedariscools
Emu Egg
Emu Egg

Joined: 4 May 2017
Age: 25
Gender: Male
Posts: 3
Location: New Jersey

08 May 2017, 10:16 am

I miss my friends Alyssa and Nicole, who I treated really badly. I had obsessed over Alyssa which slowly deteriorated my friendships with them.



alpacka
Velociraptor
Velociraptor

User avatar

Joined: 24 Apr 2016
Gender: Female
Posts: 458

18 May 2017, 3:29 pm

I miss my friend who died too young, it was awful.


_________________
Beauty is fleeting, but a rent-controlled apartment overlooking the city is forever


crystaltermination
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 17 Nov 2016
Age: 33
Gender: Female
Posts: 1,029
Location: UK

19 May 2017, 10:52 am

I keep finding myself thinking about (and missing) a woman presumably still living in France, my old school exchange. We spent just a week in each other's company as teenagers in our respective countries, but it was incredible how easily we struck up a way to communicate despite having less than the bare minimum grasp of French/English. We sort of developed our own private sign language, complete with noises to mimic certain objects. I wonder what she is doing in life and wish we'd thought to keep in contact, somehow.


_________________
On hiatus thanks to someone in real life breaching my privacy here, without my permission! May be back one day. +tips hat+


cberg
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 31 Dec 2011
Gender: Male
Posts: 12,183
Location: A swiftly tilting planet

20 May 2017, 10:42 am

Yeah & I worry. I'll be nearby though.


_________________
"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos :mrgreen:


fakkau89
Raven
Raven

Joined: 19 Jan 2017
Age: 34
Gender: Male
Posts: 106

25 May 2017, 4:30 am

No, I'm now in the process of moving on and finding someone else.



CorvusCorax7487
Emu Egg
Emu Egg

Joined: 25 May 2017
Age: 36
Gender: Male
Posts: 4
Location: Tulsa, OK

25 May 2017, 5:12 pm

Yes. She broke it off with me a week ago and I'm still feeling the pain. Feel like I'm going to be forever alone



AnodyneInsect
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker

User avatar

Joined: 27 Aug 2016
Age: 56
Gender: Female
Posts: 70
Location: Pennsylvania

30 May 2017, 2:05 pm

I miss a friend I was terrible to after I had a bad head injury. The trauma destroyed many things including friendship. I've healed from that injury but still feel horrible at losing this friend. I am such a jerk.



sleepingpancake
Toucan
Toucan

User avatar

Joined: 14 Aug 2015
Age: 30
Gender: Female
Posts: 282
Location: somewhere in Asia

04 Jun 2017, 7:06 pm

i miss the friends i never met irl...guess they're like ghost memories now to me.


_________________
it's okay to lose people but never lose yourself.


TahliaGrout
Emu Egg
Emu Egg

Joined: 25 May 2017
Age: 39
Gender: Female
Posts: 4

10 Jun 2017, 12:05 am

Yes.



Moviefan2k4
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 20 Sep 2013
Age: 43
Gender: Male
Posts: 944
Location: Texas

10 Jun 2017, 3:05 pm

I have remained in love with the same woman for sixteen years...but we haven't spoken face-to-face in 11 of those years. We did chat briefly on Facebook, maybe 4 years ago...but now I can't find her. People have often told me to "just let go"...but hearing that just ticks me off. Why is it so hard for some folks to understand, that certain people exist in this world who change your life forever? I'm lonely, but I don't feel right about seeking another woman until I'm finally at peace with the woman from my past. My heart wouldn't be in it, and that's not fair to anyone.


_________________
God, guns, and guts made America; let's keep all three.


MerryJustice
Emu Egg
Emu Egg

Joined: 10 Jun 2017
Gender: Female
Posts: 7
Location: North Carolina

10 Jun 2017, 5:59 pm

Broke up but still talking to schizophrenic boyfriend who is 500 miles away... :( I figured since maybe aspies are opposites of schizophrenic you guys may be a welcome relief?!?!?!?



rcsf
Tufted Titmouse
Tufted Titmouse

User avatar

Joined: 19 Jul 2016
Gender: Male
Posts: 48
Location: Brazil

19 Jun 2017, 7:18 am

Yesh. I miss a girl---friend, I see her in a while, although I want to see much more, but she studies very much and so is always busied.. I really like her and her things, but in times to times I express my thoughts in wrong/misunderstood words and so she misunderstand me. I have frequent interest in her, I hope I deal with it.