Eligible Odd-Bods! - The Premier Aspergian Singles List

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Darmok
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13 Jun 2017, 4:31 pm

Gallium wrote:
Hello everyone, I am new here so I thought I would give this a try.

Name: Laurel
Age: 18 (in a couple weeks)
Location: Central USA
Occupation: Paleontology intern at a well respected museum
Interests: Science (Environmental, Biology, Chemistry, Geology, Paleontology, Astronomy, Psychology, Medical, Oceanography), Politics (US and Global), Music (listening and playing), literature, TV (Criminal Minds, Futurama, SGU, Star Trek TOS, Bones, Regenesis), Ocean Liners, Deep Sea exploration.

I am bisexual, fairly small, with very light skin, dark hair, and bright green eyes. I am an atheist and would prefer someone who is also not religious. I have recently diagnosed with depression and anxiety as well as some chronic physical illnesses.
I am looking for someone (older than me but not too much) who would be interested in a long-distance relationship based mainly on talking about our interests. I would like to meet someone who is engaged and intelligent. I have trouble connecting with people in real life so I would like to supplement that with deep connections long-distance. We definitely don't have to share the same interests but I would at least like to meet someone who has interests of their own and who is very passionate about them.

Once I get to know you, we can certainly email, exchange photos and maybe Skype at some point.

Message me if you are interested or want more information.

You could have been one of my students once upon a time, Ms. Gallium. I think you'll find a lot of interesting people here.


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18 Jun 2017, 2:58 pm

20 year old male in King County of Washington State. Heavy build, buzz cut brown hair, brown eyes. Interest are table top RPGs, being in nature, and video games. My goal in life is to become a certified ethical hacker, aka white hat hacker. I am kind to a fault as well as honest. Seeking a woman the same age or a bit older.



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19 Jun 2017, 2:20 am

Is there anyone from continental Europe on this forum at all (like France, Germany, Switzerland, Austria)? Because everywhere I turn, there are people from the US or Australia...



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24 Jun 2017, 7:53 pm

Boys: I'm 27, I live in Canada, I dress like a girl, and I'm kind of filthy. With that being said, feel free to PM me.



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01 Jul 2017, 8:17 pm

Hi, My name is Karletta and I'm from Brisbane Australia.

I am a 35 year old female.
I'm wanting a boyfriend who also lives in Brisbane.

I am on the disability pension and am also a writer. I have four non fiction ebooks in the Kindle store.

I would like to meet a guy who is nice, honest and intelligent.

Please pm me if you'd like a chat.


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10 Jul 2017, 3:44 pm

Figured I'd give this thing a try :)

I'm an early 30-something male physicist, from a hand-shaped US state, near the area where transportation devices are made. Tall-ish, look young for my age, in decent shape but not to the point of having a visible six pack (it's gotta be in there somewhere!)

I like obscure hobby projects, outdoor adventures and road trips. Hobbies include fireworks, hiking, mountain biking, gardening, and not getting bitten by ticks. Seeking a lady who wants to join me on at least some of those adventures! And who might have some unique adventures of her own as well.

I once posted a Craigslist ad called "Awkward guy for awkward girl"
...OK, possibly more that once...



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16 Jul 2017, 4:14 am

I'm 29, single, female, straight, cisgender, Canadian (in Montreal), mother of a son who's 8 and in Texas with his dad. I'm diagnosed with 9 psych disorders, can you handle me??? I dunno if ANY of it is accurate anymore, though. I'm on Celexa for depression. I'm TOTALLY AGAINST labeling. I'm part of the Icarus Project mad pride/ psych survivors movement. I'm writing and almost done a book about my life and opinons and autism, and a fiction book about a bipolar girl who ends up on death row in Texas. I LOVE creative writing, disasters, autism talk, mental disorder talk, controversy talk that doesn't require extensive knowledge of politics, philosophy and Unitarian Universalism. Someone PM me, I want some company!! I like energetic, enthusiastic, loving people!!



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17 Jul 2017, 3:42 am

I'm a 26 year old lesbian female currently living in Arizona, seeking another lesbian aspie, or sympathetic neurotypical.

I'm fairly average looking, decently cute, androgynous in dress and general appearance, and athletic when I work out enough. I'm slim, small, and I have a somewhat boyish build, and I'm generally physically stronger than other women my size.

My interests include sci-fi, drawing, writing (specifically my illustrated sci-fi novel project), philosophy, metaphysics, buddhism, science (particularly genetics and space), psychology, and jewelry (I work as a professional jeweler). I also like watching netflix shows and reading books, of course. I enjoy electronica the most when it comes to music.

In a partner, shared interests and physical appearance are not necessarily important to me. What matters most to me is personality: I'm looking for a girl who's honest and straightforward, kind, non-judgmental, and is able to accommodate my needs for more alone time to recharge and pursue my special interests. I may often need to sleep alone in my own bed, and have a separate room to retreat to for hours of solitude if I'm worn out. I'm not interested in someone who is mean, controlling, emotionally manipulative, or unwilling to compromise when it comes to personal and emotional needs.

In terms of my own personality, I'm very honest (often to a fault), blunt but kind, forward, open, and empathetic. I tend to be very forgiving, especially towards people who are genuinely well-meaning. I have a very broad sense of humor, I tend to cuss a lot, and pretty much the only thing that offends me is meanness. Sharing food and possessions with trusted friends and family, as well as providing emotional support, are activities that I find extremely fulfilling. I care a great deal about others, and have a strong desire to meet the emotional needs of my friends, family, and romantic partners, as long as they are willing to respect my own needs as well. I do enjoy some social interaction, and consider myself somewhere between introverted and extroverted. My political leanings are moderate, but generally liberal. I don't care much about social status or putting on a show to impress others, and as such, have little interest in fashion or makeup.

If I sound like your type of girl, feel free to message me! :)



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17 Jul 2017, 6:39 am

i'm 25 Years Old.i live in the Bronx,NY,USA.

i'm looking for a woman who has aspergers like myself and lives in new york who has similar traits:eating bizarre things,having vivid dreams,being long-winded and laughing inappropriately


Interests:watching the local news,using martial arts & mixed martial arts to combat the oppression of aspergers people,playing the kazoo)

whatever aspergers woman that is chubby that i end up with,i will love for who she is through treating her good the way her family & friends want her being treated.

if that's your kind of man,give me a call :D :D :D :D :D :D :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:



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17 Jul 2017, 7:12 pm

JaredGTALover wrote:
i'm 25 Years Old.i live in the Bronx,NY,USA.

i'm looking for a woman who has aspergers like myself and lives in new york who has similar traits:eating bizarre things,having vivid dreams,being long-winded and laughing inappropriately


Interests:watching the local news,using martial arts & mixed martial arts to combat the oppression of aspergers people,playing the kazoo)

whatever aspergers woman that is chubby that i end up with,i will love for who she is through treating her good the way her family & friends want her being treated.

if that's your kind of man,give me a call :D :D :D :D :D :D :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:

I'm exactly like this, chubby and all, but I don't live in NY. I'm 29, but that's only 4 years. I live in Montreal... pretty close. Tell me more about yourself... I posted a lot about myself in the threads in this forum... but ask me some questions if you want. As many as you want!



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18 Jul 2017, 9:04 pm

Gender and orientation: Female and straight
Age: 16 but I like dating people who are more mature than people my age so someone around the age of 16-18 would be good.
Interests: science (chemistry and medical stuff particularly neurology and psychiatry), US constitutional law, sometimes politics, baseball and hip hop music. I also like to watch TV. I also like to read.
Religion: Atheist
What I'm Looking For: someone who's kind, interesting to talk to and honest. Ideally they would also share some of my interests and live close to my home state or in my home state (Rhode Island). If it's long distance that's ok too.

PM me if you're interested!



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06 Aug 2017, 7:07 pm

Hey Y'all; Oh, how about I begin with the interests. User name gives some of them. Yes, kites. Haven't made one, have paid other people to do that but I enjoy flying them. Am still a bit Charlie Brown-ish with the 2 string stunt kites but I keep trying :) In a sort of word irony I find flying a very grounding experience: being out in nature under the sky.
Model trains are a hobby, are are model rockets. Am in a model RR club in our little midwest county seat farm burg; though small we have fun.

That brings to mind that though living in midwest I was born in southwest desert and raised in southeast woodlands and shores.

Have a pair of rescue orange tabbys who add much to life, they are appreciated. Could happily for an hour tell stories of a childhood beagle then a collie. (the junior tabby is right here "helping" me type)

Books, books are good. These days I mostly get, new or used, non-fiction relevant to my interests or useful for reference for a sci-fi story slowly being written.
Also have done some drawings and miniatures for it. I go back and forth between wanting to eventually try to publish it or not.

I occasionally play at writing (and rewriting) (and editing) my story for a couple months at several year intervals. Been working on it a lot this year. Original is on yellowing loose-leaf paper going back to late 1970s. Story has its genesis from when in high school library reading a book of Star Trek short stories where one began with Enterprise encountering an alien ship of which it was said "the ship was beautiful".
Hmm, what would a 'beautiful' ship coming from my own being look like? A couple weeks later I had a style. Okay, there's a ship; it needs people and the people need a story. I feel kind of guilty for how mean I was to those people when beginning the story but it is their experience with that which makes the story.

Here's my recent comment on a thread about writing non-autistic characters,
"I haven't intended for any character to be autistic at all and so far my NT friends who have read some or all of it, about 8 people, have not said they thought any character to be autistic.
And in what totally bashes a stereotype of we on the spectrum a couple of them have said that I write dialogue, and emotional scenes, very well - well enough to make a couple readers cry.
I am unable to describe to anyone, even myself, how to do it; 'it' being to write non-autistic characters."

Though I like sci-fi, some of the variable effects of this stuff (autism) require that I avoid TV and movies, therefore there is no TV set in my home and a partner who goes without TV is necessary.

Guess that is a good segue to this from the beginning post of this thread,

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The ability to identify traits you would value in a prospective partner [boyfriend/girlfriend]is a definite.


Though it is a known thing that touch is often overwhelming among us, I need touch, contact, hugs, snuggles, that skin to skin connection.

A woman who can live a calm and quiet life would be appreciated. That she would have hobbies and interests for me to admire and appreciate and encourage would be nice.

Connecting to books and sci-fi, I do not want the energy of books about horror and murder in my house.

Faith is important, we need to be on the same page there: relationships are already hard enough work when you are the same faith and using the same guidelines for living, setting priorities, and making decisions.

Climate control - there is much relationship friction over air conditioner and furnace settings. I get cold fast. Often in summer I have the ac on 80F. Winter in the US midwest would cost too much to run furnace at that level so I add layers and pray for summer. If at all tolerable I like to have windows open and feel more connected to the world and life. You might guess that spring, summer, and fall, are my favorite seasons, in that order as it happens.

I've been around longer than it seems possible, 50 years, and often think things like "What, the eighties were that long ago? You're lying!". :lol: Having had no children has spared me a lot of wrinkles and grey hair. My 70 year old parents, however ...

Was married for 5 years after 2005 and I'm nervous about saying it but I need to say this which came out of that - I have concern about having a partner who is too heavy for me to move by myself if she became unconscious or immobile in a dangerous situation such as a fire or flood. That worries me deeply.


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07 Aug 2017, 1:59 am

30, male, straight.

Into books, music, film, honest people. I'll even talk about (local) politics.



JaredGTALover
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07 Aug 2017, 2:51 pm

CharityGoodyGrace wrote:
JaredGTALover wrote:
i'm 25 Years Old.i live in the Bronx,NY,USA.

i'm looking for a woman who has aspergers like myself and lives in new york who has similar traits:eating bizarre things,having vivid dreams,being long-winded and laughing inappropriately


Interests:watching the local news,using martial arts & mixed martial arts to combat the oppression of aspergers people,playing the kazoo)

whatever aspergers woman that is chubby that i end up with,i will love for who she is through treating her good the way her family & friends want her being treated.

if that's your kind of man,give me a call :D :D :D :D :D :D :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:

I'm exactly like this, chubby and all, but I don't live in NY. I'm 29, but that's only 4 years. I live in Montreal... pretty close. Tell me more about yourself... I posted a lot about myself in the threads in this forum... but ask me some questions if you want. As many as you want!


i was diagnosed with aspergers at age 3,4 or 5 and i'm focusing on female aspies :heart: :heart: :heart: because guys with it (myself included) :x :x :x :x :x :x :x are less likely to find an nt woman or girl who can love them for who they are,regardless of their aspergers,because of their negative perception of them,based on how severely awkward they appear to them :x :x :x :x :x :x :x



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23 Aug 2017, 11:09 am

Might as well give this a shot. Looking for friends really, as I've been in a mentally and physically abusive relationship, so I'm still quite hesitant to trust anyone easily. So here it goes:

Age: 38
Height: 5'11"
Ethnicity: Chinese
Body Type: Average
Location: Downtown Minneapolis, Minnesota
Diagnoses: Asperger's, ADHD, Depression, Anxiety
Interests: Music, TV, hiking, nature
No kids & Never married

Feel free to PM me if interested, even if just for friends.