Why are women so desperate for men?

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Do you happen to believe the average man might just ever so SLIGHTLY be more willing to date laterally than the average woman?

In my estimation, definitely.

Oh, I draw the line at being neutered. I'm not going to be with a woman if I'm constantly having to "put her in her place." We live in a time when women are encouraged to be independent, to achieve on par with men, and men and women are co-equals. So if we're supposed to be partners and she has to one-up me on everything, how is that helpful? If I'm at work and she thinks we need more time together and gets all weepy about it, what am I supposed to do? There was a time when a man would yell at her and slap her around. Those days are gone.

So if you think you're going to neuter me, step to the left while I move on through. We're either in this together or we're done.

I'm sure we all know men like that. Their existence hangs on every word of their women. It's frustrating working with guys like that. Just when you think you're getting something done, she shows up or the phone rings. Suddenly plans change. Projects get canceled. You can't get anything done because the boss's woman keeps reordering his life.

Now, my SO has started some positive changes in my life. I work out every day now. I'm careful about what I eat. I run road races. Gonna do a 10k for the first time this year. Women are not evil. It's GREAT to do more for your wife than for yourself. That's the way it should be. However, if we love each other for who we are, we can't change who we are and keep a positive relationship. Some women think they have to "train" their men, and they brag about it. If you love him, why does he have to be trained?

If I were dating and a girl started "training" me, I'd stop calling her. If my wife pulled a stunt like that, I'd let her know the first time it would not happen again. If she tried to doghouse me about it, I'd remind her we're married and she's making the choice to make things difficult. I don't believe in divorce, so we can do this easy or we can do this real easy.

They key is to just not end up with a woman like that in the first place, and I'll be the first to say I'm very lucky..

kara, I've seen your reports, but your behaviour is exactly what you're accusing them off - you're provoking them but then complain about them being aggressive. You were the one who also posted generalised statements of men being aggressive and hence not being able to find the date which I personally find ridiculous and which is by every definition as sexist as what you're accusing them off. TOS here says that "behavior intended to provoke or belittle other members is against the rules."

So, please stop with the provocations and let them discuss in peace, thank you.

p.s. Guys, I don't think it's katy - katy never reported or posted in the mod attention thread, (unless she had a schimb in her mind of Biblical proportions).

I work 20'hoursna week at $10.75 and hour and get ssi and ssdi cause I'm disabled.
6,3-4" and 280ish pound(working in losing weight again). I rent s place with my mom and sister, bills split 3 ways. My car died two years ago, but I can't afford to drive anyways. After bills, I have 80-100 for food and about 50-90(depends on monthly income) for for supplies/fun/savings. It'd be 50 a month for insurance then another 50+ for gas, so not logical. I take the bus. Bus pas is only $25 a month cause I'm disabled.

Edit, I forgot I have 11,000 credit debt and 11-12,000 school debt(atleast in 25 years that will be wiped.)

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Automotive technology, fancy talk for car mechanic. I've forgot most of it was that was 5 years ago now. No job for aspie. Loud, super fast pace, lots of anxiety. Back this 100k car into this stall that's at an angle and barely fits it, then put it on the rack properly or you bend the car(every car needs placed differently), then inspect the whole thing, then drain its oil, change filter, check other fluids, fill oil. Lower, back it out of tiny stale. All in 10 minutes or less. And everyone yells at you all the time. It's worse if you make a mistake even if not yours. I did an oil change on truck cause news told to but the service writier was wrong so did free oil chang, boss was mad at me. You have to buy thousands of dollars of tools. Even the nt who graduated with me, most changed jobs cas they couldn't make money getting paid flat rate at $12 and buying hundreds of thousands of dollars of tools. But the work environment bad for aspies, so I'd discourage any from it. I thought it was something hands on and I did well in scool setting. No do overs allowed though.

I work in a outdoor/hiking/hunting/hooting store. One of the 3 big chains. Do you mean like a small mom and pop?

I'm probably level 0. Maybe if I worked full time, lived alone, and had a working car I'd be level 1.

I've been rejected by women with school, debt, degree they can't use, who re unemployed and living off their parents at 27.

The crazy, abusive, women don't think I'm good enough either. What's that say about me that I'm not even good enough to be abused?
I'd probably be willing to date women with serene mental help problems like super anxiety, my younger sister has that, she almost never leaves her house snd guess it causes her to get lost. I'd be find with depressed women or women with low self esteem, maybe I could even help them. Tell them their pretty and worth love everyday.

I dont know how it's there, but here most the obese unhealthy eating women demand a handsome athlete thin guy, while at the same time shaming guys for not being interested in them for being fat. the thin athletic women logical alsonwant thin athletic men. Most men are fat here. Or atleast 50/50 with a lot being bigger then me.like I'd probably fit inside them. Seems hypocritical to me, if by some miracle I became thin it'd be hard work, why would I date them. Heck I thinner then most those women already and that's cause I try to watch my food intake, I don't let myself enjoy as much snacks as I'd like. But I'm not good enough for them.

Smoking is one thing I can't put up with. My grandpa died from it, my uncle is having health problems from it, it smells terrible and I don't wantn2nd hand cancer.
My rooms dirty, my diet isn't great due to income, I hardly excerise. That sounds like my idea woman, though I'm going try hard to use gym, friend said he'd help me learn proper weight excises eventually. Drinking is no, but I can't demand that, most women drink a lot, our generation favored getting wasted every weekend as fun. We don't have gangs here.though that might be changing we had a drive by last week by some teens.
I don't want kids yet.

Well i dont know I kinda agree with that . You should love someone at their worst. Life isn't always great. It's the reverse why a bunch of women leave men if they lose their jobs leading to high divorce rates.

But your league women will date up. If they're pretty they won't have any trouble finding. A fit middle class guy.

I don't care how well off a woman is, I didn't care that lady unemployed and living off her parents. I thought she seemed nice and we had similar interests. I'm far too low standards others might say, yet I'm not deemed good enough for any.

See we don't have many drop outs here and most everyone especially women go to college. I dont know if they're find jobs after, I doubt most will. A lot of women seem to work in nursing. Our local community college has a big nipursing program. We have one major university here the university of oregon(people come from all over the world to go there. Then we have a bunch of smaller colleges. So we get a lot of out of county people in my age range (19-35) lots of pretty women. Doesn't seem to be nearly as much male college students and the local male population is hardly the college educated middle class theyndemand. We were and are a logging town, Eugene is a hippy city. Most the middle and upper class live in Portland.

Honesty I'd like a girl who likes staying in, has no big ambitions, is ok going to coast occasionally like once a year or few. Maybe camping. Who's nice. Would be okay working out together but wouldn't push it. Maybe nerdy too. But it seems all women are super ambitious:(

In my experience, men prefer to date "down."

Also, men tend to make more money than women. Statistically, if you're a woman dating a man, he's going to earn more than her. Much the same way that, if you're a man, than the woman you're dating will be shorter than you.

I prefer to date down or laterally but when you're in my position there's really.not much options to date down.

I try to go for girls my age who have a job, a working car, live alone or with roommates, etc. But only because if I didn't my dating pool would be severely reduced (as if it isn't already anyway lol).

And as I get older it'll only get worse as this is probably the age where high school dropout girls who live with their parents.but are a nice sweet girl and willing to meet new people are most common, they all get jobs and move out eventually.

F*ck I really need to start studying.

You're a smart guy. You should be studying.

Sly from this point you need to lose weight. That's the number 1 goal right there. Focus on that and that aloe in your Dailey life.

I dont know what Dailey is but I've lost 10 pounds already, but t won't matter. Becoming s skeleton won't make me happy and it won't make up for mY ugly and lack of material things most women demand.only at 1500 calories today. Maybe be able too get it down to 1000 if I just eat two meals of slimfast and protein bars.

I don't think that's true anymore. Way more women are going to college then men, which leads them to higher paying jobs then men

Legally i have to get doctor permission.

Stupid laws. Trying to get that sorted out.

I'm on a disability payment so cant work or study at all except for 8hrs a fortnight even if I wanted to.

What the government doesn't seem to understand is studying is much easier than working a full time job.

Not to say study is easy, but getting fired vs. getting an "F"?

I disagree. Eating a healthy balanced diet and getting regular exercise makes the body feel good. We are creatures who are meant to move around.

I feel so much better when I exercise.

Would you be willing to forgo your benefits to study? It's the simplest least paperwork bound solution surely. Students get other kinds of benefits.

Of course you would need to research the pros and cons.

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