06 Jul 2010, 4:51 pm
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I have had women assume that I'm more naive than I really am. When they find out the real deal, they're usually shocked and disappointed. I tell them that they just thought that I would be easily manipulated. Surprised Some have even admitted that I'm RIGHT!
Yep, I've been through this too. They think that just because your "nice" and "shy" that you must be a desperate virgin, or in my case, a desperate 30 year old virgin, that they can use you to get away with any desire they want. Although, I probably read it as being more sinister than it really is
I've been trying to get my photo's up, but sxc is taking forever to approve my photos I uploaded. I don't have a facebook or myspace or else I'd just link to them. Is there a quicker way?
PS. I see that this thread isn't exactly in the correct forum, forgive me for not following correct protocol.
06 Jul 2010, 6:08 pm
takemitsu wrote:
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I have had women assume that I'm more naive than I really am. When they find out the real deal, they're usually shocked and disappointed. I tell them that they just thought that I would be easily manipulated. Surprised Some have even admitted that I'm RIGHT!
Yep, I've been through this too. They think that just because your "nice" and "shy" that you must be a desperate virgin, or in my case, a desperate 30 year old virgin, that they can use you to get away with any desire they want. Although, I probably read it as being more sinister than it really is
I've been trying to get my photo's up, but sxc is taking forever to approve my photos I uploaded. I don't have a facebook or myspace or else I'd just link to them. Is there a quicker way?
PS. I see that this thread isn't exactly in the correct forum, forgive me for not following correct protocol.
You are 1000% correct! That is EXACTLY what I was talking about! You did NOT read it as being more sinister than it really is. And when you find a woman who is later WOMAN ENOUGH to admit it, you feel validated in knowing you've not gone completely 'round the bend!
As far as you being in the wrong forum, I would beg to differ. I believe that it was meant to be there so that people like me would see it and respond as I mostly lurk in this forum.
Also like you, I'm not sure if I have it, but I am certain of one thing. I HAVE SOMETHING: PDD-NOS, BAP, AS, AvPD, Social Anxiety, OCPD!
06 Jul 2010, 6:16 pm
takemitsu wrote:
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I have had women assume that I'm more naive than I really am. When they find out the real deal, they're usually shocked and disappointed. I tell them that they just thought that I would be easily manipulated. Surprised Some have even admitted that I'm RIGHT!
Yep, I've been through this too. They think that just because your "nice" and "shy" that you must be a desperate virgin, or in my case, a desperate 30 year old virgin, that they can use you to get away with any desire they want. Although, I probably read it as being more sinister than it really is
I've been trying to get my photo's up, but sxc is taking forever to approve my photos I uploaded. I don't have a facebook or myspace or else I'd just link to them. Is there a quicker way?
PS. I see that this thread isn't exactly in the correct forum, forgive me for not following correct protocol.
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06 Jul 2010, 6:55 pm
07 Jul 2010, 5:59 am
First of all, you are seriously good-looking! Really ... that's the picture you should use on dating websites, if you ever sign up for one
I had a huge crush on my ex-boss. He told me the advice he had been given when he first started working there, when he had to travel a lot to the Buenos Aires office (and believe me, it seems like just about everybody in Buenos Aires is gorgeous): "Don't s**t where you eat". In other words, keep your sex life out of your work life. I got the message. Maybe your young admirers would get the message, too. Best luck.
07 Jul 2010, 8:33 am
reginaterrae wrote:
First of all, you are seriously good-looking! Really ... that's the picture you should use on dating websites, if you ever sign up for one
I had a huge crush on my ex-boss. He told me the advice he had been given when he first started working there, when he had to travel a lot to the Buenos Aires office (and believe me, it seems like just about everybody in Buenos Aires is gorgeous): "Don't sh** where you eat". In other words, keep your sex life out of your work life. I got the message. Maybe your young admirers would get the message, too. Best luck.
I had a huge crush on my ex-boss. He told me the advice he had been given when he first started working there, when he had to travel a lot to the Buenos Aires office (and believe me, it seems like just about everybody in Buenos Aires is gorgeous): "Don't sh** where you eat". In other words, keep your sex life out of your work life. I got the message. Maybe your young admirers would get the message, too. Best luck.
WOW!
Your boss seems to have been an INTELLIGENT MAN! These losers I work with don't seem to understand that concept as they seem obsessed with knowing the personal details of other people where I work. Then they want to justify it by saying that we're supposed to be personal with each other. Like HELL!
I personally don't want to know ANYthing about the SEXUAL nature of ANYbody in my office.
07 Jul 2010, 8:47 am
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