26 Jul 2010, 3:51 pm
t0 wrote:
nick007 wrote:
I think the security is that both of em are to broke after the cost of it to find someone else 
Those ceremonies are extremely expensive. Five thousand for a dress that will only get worn 1x
Those ceremonies are extremely expensive. Five thousand for a dress that will only get worn 1xYou don't seem to understand that there are reasonable people in this world who don't do that. My wife bought her dress at a wedding consignment shop. It was far less expensive than that. We didn't have to - we had the money and could have spent $100k on a dress if we had wanted to. But we're reasonable people and decided that wasn't important.
It's obvious that you don't get it. You seem to have a preconceived notion that all people who get married are unreasonable and idiotic. I seriously doubt it is possible to explain any other version of reality to you.
I don't think I said that all weddings are like that but in general they seem to be about showing off & competing to see who can have the best perfect day. Organizing & planning a major celebration & putting on a show for lots of people some of who probably do not get along & may not even like em seems to be missing the point. I think a wedding should be about the couple wanting to spend their lives together because they love each other instead of the major performance piece it's become. Worrying about everything being "perfect" & planned out; does not seem romantic at all to me.
Your rite; I don't get weddings
26 Jul 2010, 4:07 pm
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