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Craig28
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10 Dec 2010, 6:47 pm

Hi everyone!

Having a serious lack of experience and no previous relationships, I was wondering if anybody had any tips on how to flirt. I have my eye on a very nice lady and I want to get in there. Any help and advice would be greatly appreciated. :D



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10 Dec 2010, 6:53 pm

Is this that married nice lady?


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10 Dec 2010, 6:57 pm

What is flirting??? Seriously I have never known



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10 Dec 2010, 7:00 pm

I don't know how males flirt, to be honest.
I find it quite easy, I guess i've gotten quite good at manipulating people.



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10 Dec 2010, 7:11 pm

Sallamandrina wrote:
Is this that married nice lady?

my question exactly.


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10 Dec 2010, 7:17 pm

Tell her you sleep with prostitutes and wanna see how she compares

That'll work



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10 Dec 2010, 7:19 pm

ouch. burn. :lol:



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10 Dec 2010, 7:47 pm

nice
that deserves a "bam"



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10 Dec 2010, 7:48 pm

What I have found that really impresses a woman is this: get an old pick-up truck and put a porta-john in the bed (tie it down so it doesn't slip around). Then when you meet a woman you like just inform her that you have a pickup truck with a porta-john tied to the back and if she wants to go for a ride all you have to do is pull the truck over and she can use the bathroom any time she wants.



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10 Dec 2010, 8:07 pm

Sallamandrina wrote:
Is this that married nice lady?


No, its another one. :D



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10 Dec 2010, 9:27 pm

Well, you can't flirt if you aren't being you. It has to be you showing interest in her. That's what flirting is really, you showing interest in someone. Approach her the same way you approach everyone.

FYI, there is a time frame for this. Approach sooner rather than later, because after a period of time, it's too late. That ship has sailed.



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11 Dec 2010, 2:36 pm

Why should there be a time limit on flirting?



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11 Dec 2010, 2:47 pm

there is, its how NTs work (hell even some AS people too)
its just one of the many social rules one cannot change

you wait to long, (and if she was interested) she will think you don't like her and lose interest
trust me, I know all about bad timing



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11 Dec 2010, 2:59 pm

Kilroy wrote:
there is, its how NTs work (hell even some AS people too)
its just one of the many social rules one cannot change

you wait to long, (and if she was interested) she will think you don't like her and lose interest
trust me, I know all about bad timing

it's not universal that women will lose interest if you don't flirt right off the bat. interest in a man can grow with time, too.


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11 Dec 2010, 3:06 pm

yeah but that's not all that common
yes its possible but I wouldn't tell anyone to bank on that



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11 Dec 2010, 3:20 pm

Kilroy wrote:
yeah but that's not all that common
yes its possible but I wouldn't tell anyone to bank on that

fair enough.


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