advantages to dating an adhd kid

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14 Dec 2010, 8:44 pm

well im adhd and well i would like to know what would you like about an adhd kid :!: :?:


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14 Dec 2010, 9:16 pm

He's always there when you need someone to shake your test tube?



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14 Dec 2010, 9:30 pm

>.> how good of a friend are you with that adhd person


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14 Dec 2010, 10:46 pm

Honestly this is best done by a case-by-case basis, as not all ADHD people are the same. Also we could know about other disorders you might have, as sometimes these things travel in twos. A person who is ADHD/Dyslexic behaves differently than a person who has ADHD/CAP-D or ADHD/Bipolar.

My closest friend is ADD, and another two of my friends are ADHD. We've gone through some boughts. There are more similarities than differences. The is a level of understanding there which isn't there otherwise. I've heard on here a couple times ADHD/Aspie or ASD are a good match and I agree with it. Most ADHD people I know are sympathetic towards others, fun to be around, and talented in areas of interest. Though attention span is an issue, but one that can be worked around.



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14 Dec 2010, 11:01 pm

ok thats true i was diagnosed with adhd pdd and well attention can be an issue from time to time and well i love to do acting and well i am friends with alot of people (over 350) but i love to have a good time so thats cool ^,^


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15 Dec 2010, 12:47 am

One of my very good friends has ADHD-hyperactive type, a very pronounced form of it. What I find really awesome about him is that with him, there's never a dull moment. For me, that's a really good thing to have in a friend, because he never needs his alone time. With him, I feel free to be who I am in terms of not suppressing my true personality, as I try to do with a lot of people because they find me very draining otherwise. He, however, is the same way, so we pretty much complement each other. I think it's awesome.


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15 Dec 2010, 6:33 pm

cool


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17 Dec 2010, 9:53 am

I have ADHD & my ex had extremely bad ADHD. I liked that se was weird random & funny


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17 Dec 2010, 4:50 pm

nice why is she your ex now


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17 Dec 2010, 6:13 pm

domino wrote:
nice why is she your ex now

It's a long & complicated story but the short version is~ it was a long distance thing & she had some issues with drugs & alcohol & I was very dependent on her, very insecure & had lots of anxiety issues worrying about her & everything. That was like 7/8 years ago thou


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18 Dec 2010, 6:13 pm

i see


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