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BazzaMcKenzie
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06 Sep 2006, 6:22 pm

BazzaMcKenzie wrote:

hale_bopp wrote:

, but my hair is coloured, it's naturally brown. But that's beside the point.

I asked you not to tell me that.

That was sort of a joke - a misquote from Maxwell Smart, secret agent 86.

I love you just as you are. :heart:

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06 Sep 2006, 9:18 pm

Sowhain,

What I don't get is how you are driving a jag, yet dating angry BBW's; while preferring non angry slims. At what point in the past did you 'have' or 'choose' to make this decision to make both you and these BBW miserable. I mean, west virginia....c'mon.

For instance, Is there something wrong with your attractiveness to tempered slims, and if so...what? BBM? Third eye? Low self esteem? What?

Why injure yourself like that.

Good luck anyways! Happy mating.

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07 Sep 2006, 5:10 am

"Fat girls"... I find significantly overweight or underweight women to be extremely UNattractive because:

* It is very unhealthy. Heck just the other day I saw a report about the effects of diabetes, this man had lost toes because of it. And what causes diabetes type 2? Being fat and lazy causes it. Being fat causes all sorts of other health problems as well. Being underweight also causes health problems. Unhealthy people are unattractive.

* Fat people are often lazy and lazy people are no fun. OK sometimes a person has a legitimate medical reason for being overweight, but in the vast majority of cases, fat people are lazy lardasses. It is reasonable (statistically) to think that a fat person is *probably* lazy (but not always). Laziness is unattractive.

* Fat people often have a psychological problem that is causing them to be overweight. For example very low self-esteem or depression or other problems. Psychological problems are unattractive.

* Fat people are usually neglecting themselves (not always, as I said sometimes they have a legitimate excuse, but usually it is self-neglect). Self-neglect is unattractive.

As for the people who say things that amount to "It is OK to be fat", they need a good slapping. It is NOT OK to be fat. FAT IS BAD. Fat is very unhealthy. If I was significantly overweight or underweight, I would make it a top priority to fix it.

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07 Sep 2006, 6:20 am

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I've known many mentally healthy "overweight" people who walked everywhere, worked hard, took care of kids, and still have a problem with weight. I've known very neurotic people with a "healthy" weight who could not go to the corner store without taking their car, and yet they are thin. Weight doesn't ALWAYS correlate with mental health or physical exercise.

That said, I think it's good to be able to find ways to control your weight if that's what you feel you want, so that you can look the way you want to look.

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07 Sep 2006, 9:16 am

I personally have no problem with fat. Sure it's unhealthy, but unhealthy in my view doesn't equal unattractive. I've met quite a few large ladies who I've been attracted to.

I don't find morbidly obese people attractive though. Again, not because it's unhealthy but because that's just not what I like.

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07 Sep 2006, 10:32 am

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Unattractive people (from a traditional point of view) are pretty much the only ones who would even give me the time of day, let alone a chance. It tooks me years to realize it, but now I work accordingly. From the time a years ago (in my pre-WP days) when I ended up kissing an unattractive girl while I was really drunk, the method of going for only unattractive girls has grown into a system. Despite the common impression, it is not based on deception, but on me and them being in the exact same situation: not being able to find a romantic partner. So honestly, what is wrong with two lonely people finding each other, and making each other's life happier?

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07 Sep 2006, 11:05 am

You guys are hypocrites because you cry if someone makes fun of you because of AS problems and you are being cruel and ridiculing girl with weight problems. It's been proved that the more you diet the more your body metobolism slows down and the harder it is to lose weight. Dieting actually causes weight gain!

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07 Sep 2006, 11:52 am

hale_bopp wrote:

uh.. the fat thing I said was a joke. And I do have blonde hair and blue eyes, but my hair is coloured, it's naturally brown. But that's beside the point.

What a waste of brown hair...

Why did you have to ruin it by dyeing it blonde????

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07 Sep 2006, 12:12 pm

bizarre wrote:

But it's possible to get rid of overweight. It's impossible to get rid of AS. That's the difference.

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07 Sep 2006, 12:16 pm

Aspie1 wrote:

You have a really good point here, and I would like to add that what most people consider attractive does NOT match what I consider to be attractive. For example, I don't find blondies to be attractive at all (with a strong preference for black or brown hair), I don't like girls who are stick figures (they look sick, to be honest...), little or no makeup is preferred (an alternative is goth makeup, which can look so cool sometimes...), tough "don't mess with me" looks, etc....

It's also been pointed out that people tend to marry people of equal attractiveness (in society's eyes). I would say that a lot of this has to do with the fact that different people find different appearance types attractive.

Now I am quite asexual, but I do still find certain types of girls attractive aesthetically.

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07 Sep 2006, 12:17 pm

Litigious wrote:

bizarre wrote:

But it's possible to get rid of overweight. It's impossible to get rid of AS. That's the difference.

My girlfriend has AS and I love that about her.

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07 Sep 2006, 12:47 pm

Litigious wrote:

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But it's possible to get rid of overweight. It's impossible to get rid of AS. That's the difference.

Easier said than done. I've been trying to lose 20 lbs and it is not easy. When you get in your 30's your metabolism slows down and hormones make it harder to lose too. That is why men lose weight faster than woman do. I walk on the treadmill for 1 hours and it says i burned 100 cal. and 100 calories is about the same calories is in a one apple.

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07 Sep 2006, 1:11 pm

bizarre wrote:

Litigious wrote:

bizarre wrote:

But it's possible to get rid of overweight. It's impossible to get rid of AS. That's the difference.

It's not about dieting either, it's about adopting a healthy lifestyle. And as far as losing weight, if you take in less calories than you burn in a day, you're going to lose weight.

If walking on the treadmill isn't burning it off, try running on the treadmill. Might sound hard, but once you start building the right mucles up it gets easier and easier. If 90 year olds can complete marathons, we have no excuse.

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07 Sep 2006, 1:38 pm

running and walking on the treadmill burns the same amount of calories

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07 Sep 2006, 8:06 pm

gnulinuxman wrote:

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uh.. the fat thing I said was a joke. And I do have blonde hair and blue eyes, but my hair is coloured, it's naturally brown. But that's beside the point.

What a waste of brown hair...

Why did you have to ruin it by dyeing it blonde????

You sound exactly like my mother.

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