What kind of people are you attracted to?

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17 Jul 2006, 11:30 am

I just want to be able to pass women without staring down their cleavages and to do everything else than surf for porn on the internet. I already have breasts and bad beard growth and I plan on going on a strict diet once I get the drugs.



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17 Jul 2006, 12:18 pm

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I just want to be able to pass women without staring down their cleavages and to do everything else than surf for porn on the internet.

Other men do not feel bad about doing these things. Why do you suppose you are not comfortable with these impluses?
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I already have breasts and bad beard growth and I plan on going on a strict diet once I get the drugs.

Breasts as in fully developed mammery glands.. not 'man-boobs'. Transexuals take female homones before ops and to grow breasts. I imagine another side effect would be a higher voice and more intense emotions. If you really want a way to decrease your libido, again intense excersize would be the most ideal as it channels the testosterone into the muscles instead.



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17 Jul 2006, 2:18 pm

I've considered trying Cipralex again as a form of chemical castration, but I don't want the "Angstfest" I had the last time.



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17 Jul 2006, 2:20 pm

riley wrote:
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I just want to be able to pass women without staring down their cleavages and to do everything else than surf for porn on the internet.

Other men do not feel bad about doing these things. Why do you suppose you are not comfortable with these impluses?



I feel as if I bully them.



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17 Jul 2006, 3:05 pm

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I don't need a sex drive. I'm 33, so I'm basically too old for dating and most women over 27 are in relationships and have kids and I'm too old for those under 27.
When I hit 30, it seemed like women my age were either married and making babies, or if not, there was a good reason why not. However, I discovered the 40-something divorcee. Talk about hot! I was 33 when I met my wife, 35 when we got married. She was 12 years older than me. We were married for 12 years. Now I'm 48, and while I have no romantic interest in 20-somethings, I remain optimistic about 30- and 40-somethings.

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17 Jul 2006, 3:50 pm

eh no one in real life.
is that bad?

saix: no comment.
xemnas: "romantic relationships" jet do you even know what that means?
hmm not really.

i like fictional characters does that count?

larxene: well i guess that means this place will never die.
demyx: yep *gets out sitar and dances*
narcore: we are immortal!

well they're happy.


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17 Jul 2006, 9:38 pm

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his guy targets overweight girls/women with low self esteem for sex.
Yes, I'm like that too, the only difference is that I don't trust people enough to try to get into contact with them.

That's just bullsh*t. I don't target overweight women for sex. When I want sex, I hire an escort. I go for overweight women because they're the only ones willing to be in a relationship with me.



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18 Jul 2006, 2:54 am

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I don't need a sex drive. I'm 33, so I'm basically too old for dating and most women over 27 are in relationships and have kids and I'm too old for those under 27.
When I hit 30, it seemed like women my age were either married and making babies, or if not, there was a good reason why not. However, I discovered the 40-something divorcee. Talk about hot! I was 33 when I met my wife, 35 when we got married. She was 12 years older than me. We were married for 12 years. Now I'm 48, and while I have no romantic interest in 20-somethings, I remain optimistic about 30- and 40-somethings.

:jester:



I don't want a girlfriend with teen kids, absolutely not... No it's a single, neutered life for me.



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18 Jul 2006, 2:57 am

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his guy targets overweight girls/women with low self esteem for sex.
Yes, I'm like that too, the only difference is that I don't trust people enough to try to get into contact with them.

That's just bullsh*t. I don't target overweight women for sex. When I want sex, I hire an escort. I go for overweight women because they're the only one willing to be in a relationship with me.



Sorry if I offended you, but I don't want to be like this and I can never get close to women either, so I'm finally going to get chemically castrated now.



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18 Jul 2006, 3:12 am

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I feel as if I bully them.

Could bit of a risky subject but given you said 'feel' instead of 'do' I'll ask:

Why do you feel you bully them? You obviously have a moral centre in regard to treatment of women.. perhaps we could figure out what you feel you are doing 'wrong' when interacting with them and give you some tips in how to curb this behaviour. It might be a simple matter of retraining [or being more disciplined with] your body language.



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18 Jul 2006, 4:26 am

riley wrote:
Lonermutant wrote:
I feel as if I bully them.

Could bit of a risky subject but given you said 'feel' instead of 'do' I'll ask:

Why do you feel you bully them? You obviously have a moral centre in regard to treatment of women.. perhaps we could figure out what you feel you are doing 'wrong' when interacting with them and give you some tips in how to curb this behaviour. It might be a simple matter of retraining [or being more disciplined with] your body language.




I doubt that most teen girls and women like to have a man staring down their cleavage or at their breasts as they pass them.
I know and I've always known that I'm never going to have sex ever. Castration is the best solution for me.



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18 Jul 2006, 9:15 am

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I doubt that most teen girls and women like to have a man staring down their cleavage or at their breasts as they pass them.

Most men do this.. but they usually do a sneeky 'quick glance'. Seinfeld covered this subject quite well. :)
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I know and I've always known that I'm never going to have sex ever.

If you have a self defeatest attitude.. you will be savotaged by it.
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Castration is the best solution for me.

It's your decision. Perhaps you could just have your urges 'lessened' so you can cope with them more easily rather than completely get rid of them? I assume doctors can alter doses accordingly. In the meantime.. while you are having a 'break' from your libido.. you could work on your self worth issues. You seem to put yourself down too much.



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18 Jul 2006, 11:13 am

riley wrote:
Lonermutant wrote:
I doubt that most teen girls and women like to have a man staring down their cleavage or at their breasts as they pass them.

Most men do this.. but they usually do a sneeky 'quick glance'. Seinfeld covered this subject quite well. :)
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I know and I've always known that I'm never going to have sex ever.

If you have a self defeatest attitude.. you will be savotaged by it.
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Castration is the best solution for me.

It's your decision. Perhaps you could just have your urges 'lessened' so you can cope with them more easily rather than completely get rid of them? I assume doctors can alter doses accordingly. In the meantime.. while you are having a 'break' from your libido.. you could work on your self worth issues. You seem to put yourself down too much.



I have to get castrated before I really get into trouble because I'm much too interested in sex.



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18 Jul 2006, 12:10 pm

:?

Not sure if I'd want you to elaborate. I guess your options are, as you've already said; chemical castration, seeing a prostitute or addressing the issues that may prevent you from forming relationships in the first place.



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18 Jul 2006, 12:33 pm

I tend to agree that castration is a bit of a severe response. If the worst thing you do is look at women in a manner that makes them feel uncomfortable, so be it, that's life. As long as you can keep your hands to yourself and your dick in your pants, you're fine. On the other hand, if you've done worse things in the past, that's reasonable cause for concern that you might do so again in the future. Speak to a priest or a psychologist or a lawyer, someone obliged to not turn you in to the police. There is hope. If you were hopeless, you wouldn't be here. Best of luck.