Quartz's OK Cupid Aventures 2 - Return of the Desperate!

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14 Mar 2011, 6:10 pm

Since a few of you might be lost here, this is actually how it is:

The one who I had told I had never been in a relationship before, I had no interest in. I was saying things to get rid of her, she seemed to reek of desperation to me. Hence me saying I'm in no rush to get married and not wanting to have kids ever.

The two which I do have some interest in, I have never mentioned anything serious about relationships. It's mostly about music so far with those them.

Hopefully that clears things up a little.



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18 Mar 2011, 11:01 am

the best technique for an okcupid message is too keep telling them that they are beautiful and you love them, and keep telling them how desperate you are, make sure you mention that you cry yourself to sleep with lonleyness every night and also let her know that this is the big one (you have suicide planned if she doesnt date you). Also good to drop in that you cryed for a while if she did not message you one day, to show how longing and romantic you are, and tell her that you printed off her posted pictures and put them over your bed, to create the feeling of closeness. Above all make sure she knows that you are desperate and that she is your last chance for happiness and all your chances for mental health are depending on her, a lady likes to feel important.



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18 Mar 2011, 12:14 pm

hill-o-beans wrote:
the best technique for an okcupid message is too keep telling them that they are beautiful and you love them, and keep telling them how desperate you are, make sure you mention that you cry yourself to sleep with lonleyness every night and also let her know that this is the big one (you have suicide planned if she doesnt date you). Also good to drop in that you cryed for a while if she did not message you one day, to show how longing and romantic you are, and tell her that you printed off her posted pictures and put them over your bed, to create the feeling of closeness. Above all make sure she knows that you are desperate and that she is your last chance for happiness and all your chances for mental health are depending on her, a lady likes to feel important.


Some gal tried that on me, similar to that anyway.

I called her the c-word and told her to lose my number since I was done with her forever.



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18 Mar 2011, 7:09 pm

ouch!



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18 Mar 2011, 7:33 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
I wouldn't kick yourself for dating sites being crap.

I just got a message saying "why are you so retarded and weird"?

lol, sh** for brains.


I'm shocked at that one. It's good you weeded someone like that early on before meeting him (hopefully) and didn't waste too much of your time on him, but still ... how hurtful.



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18 Mar 2011, 9:14 pm

hill-o-beans wrote:
the best technique for an okcupid message is too keep telling them that they are beautiful and you love them, and keep telling them how desperate you are, make sure you mention that you cry yourself to sleep with lonleyness every night and also let her know that this is the big one (you have suicide planned if she doesnt date you). Also good to drop in that you cryed for a while if she did not message you one day, to show how longing and romantic you are, and tell her that you printed off her posted pictures and put them over your bed, to create the feeling of closeness. Above all make sure she knows that you are desperate and that she is your last chance for happiness and all your chances for mental health are depending on her, a lady likes to feel important.


Thanks for this!

I wondered what I was doing wrong...


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19 Mar 2011, 6:32 pm

Quartz's Adventures 2a:

One of the decent ones I had been talking to lately disappeared, the other is still around.

And one gal I messaged eight weeks ago finally decided to reply this afternoon... odd. I had made a comment back saying "Hope to hear back from you. (Insert joke here about you replying back in May.)"