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CrazyCatLord
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23 Mar 2012, 12:13 pm

I think I'm the complete opposite of a stalker. I break off all contact with people after getting to know them because I'm unsure if they really want me around, and fear that my presence might bother them. I also never make compliments (in the photo threads here on WP, for example), because I'm afraid that people might find it creepy.



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23 Mar 2012, 3:18 pm

I see them doing it as a twisted type of sport where they see how far they can go before getting reported.

Whoever does stalk needs to realise its a waste of time and they may go to prison for it.


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23 Mar 2012, 3:22 pm

CrazyCatLord wrote:
I think I'm the complete opposite of a stalker. I break off all contact with people after getting to know them because I'm unsure if they really want me around, and fear that my presence might bother them. I also never make compliments (in the photo threads here on WP, for example), because I'm afraid that people might find it creepy.


I compliment, but otherwise this describes me perfectly.


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24 Mar 2012, 12:45 am

From what I can tell, most stalkers have mental issues of some kind, be they temporary or permanent. They also tend to have very poor boundaries themselves and naturally project them onto others.


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29 Mar 2012, 6:51 am

I know why most narcissists do. They won't take no for an answer or have somebody threaten their ego.



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30 Mar 2012, 7:19 pm

I've come close to stalking these two hot people in my neighbourhood to find out where they live. once that happed i caught myself wanting to do that. i quit "going out of my way" to be around them when they were out walking around. frankly when i thought about it, its effing creepy, and I wouldnt want someone doing that to me. I think i did it was because of my awful social skills and wanting to make a friend connection. :?

I just have to keep in mind that there are places to go and people to meet, if i want to do that.

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27 Apr 2016, 11:34 am

Some people do out of spite. They have an enemy delusion that there is a vendetta when in reality there is none. I am experiencing this sort of thing now with a former neighbor. The frustrating thing is I have no proof other than my word.

This isn't the first time this has happened to me.



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27 Apr 2016, 11:37 am

Because they're a few fries short of a Happy Meal.


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27 Apr 2016, 12:48 pm

I am the opposite of stalker, I don't even have the typical male quality as 'chaser'.:

I never do a phone call out of blue; unless if it's for coordination for something preplaned previously.

I never add a crush accquaintance on facebook even if she told me her name and know her for s bit while, and even if I happen to find her profile (yet I know some would accept it blindly because it's not a big deal for them), I would only add her if it's mutual and it got brought out during some conversation or outing.

Same thing when it comes to phone number, never from a third party.

And if I see her somewhere I don't try to sit or stand next to her unless she tells me to come with a gesture or words.

I never try to adjust my schedule of my stuff in order to increase my chances to bump into my subject of intetest (ok, I did it once slightly but I felt lame).

I hear women that they would like it if guys (the ones they like) chase them but I never do it.