18 Sep 2011, 3:53 pm
19 Sep 2011, 12:03 am
19 Sep 2011, 12:22 am
19 Sep 2011, 2:37 am
Grisha wrote:
Adam82 wrote:
AS_Citizen_43275-B wrote:
A typical aspie male is the poster child of what nearly all (younger) women don't want. Yes, rejections are painful, I've had my share.
I'm now 30 and I've resigned myself into accepting a perpetual life being single. I don't even attempt to hit on girls anymore. Sure, it'll be nice to interact with a girl you're interested in, but face reality (see my 1st paragraph). Strangely, I don't feel lonely.
Being constantly overlooked and seeing girls go for smooth talking small-brained assholes was making me bitter and misogynistic. I'm now apathetic in seeking a relationship and as a result I'm happy and at peace. I suggest you become stoic and accept the reality of what AS is on a man. Have your soulmate find you, rather than you going through all the rejections.
Women that are understanding and tolerant of AS symptoms are too few and too far in between. Maybe the pretty girl who likes you and accepts you for who you are is not white
or blond, as I seen a post from you that you wouldn't date a non-white girl. Your limiting yourself man!
Being single is mandatory for many aspies. It sucks, but it's reality. Grow to accept it. After all we're in a wrong planet full of prejudiced NTs.
Those women that have rejected you are not worth becoming resentful and misogynistic...
I'm now 30 and I've resigned myself into accepting a perpetual life being single. I don't even attempt to hit on girls anymore. Sure, it'll be nice to interact with a girl you're interested in, but face reality (see my 1st paragraph). Strangely, I don't feel lonely.
Being constantly overlooked and seeing girls go for smooth talking small-brained assholes was making me bitter and misogynistic. I'm now apathetic in seeking a relationship and as a result I'm happy and at peace. I suggest you become stoic and accept the reality of what AS is on a man. Have your soulmate find you, rather than you going through all the rejections.
Women that are understanding and tolerant of AS symptoms are too few and too far in between. Maybe the pretty girl who likes you and accepts you for who you are is not white
or blond, as I seen a post from you that you wouldn't date a non-white girl. Your limiting yourself man!
Being single is mandatory for many aspies. It sucks, but it's reality. Grow to accept it. After all we're in a wrong planet full of prejudiced NTs.
Those women that have rejected you are not worth becoming resentful and misogynistic...
I am nearly at this stage. I turn 30 next year. And I have to pretty much accept that I never will have a girlfriend. AS men just don't press their buttons. Just find something more useful to dedicate my life to pursuing.
Very difficult thing to accept though, I still can't even at my age. The important thing is to learn to enjoy the times you actually do have. Personally, I got "rejected" last night by a woman who actually hit on me first, and I spent the day with a wonderful girl who could never be my girlfriend - and it was totally awesome! I'm not kidding. It's all a matter of your perspective.
Learn to cherish the little things...
Wait...enjoy being friendzoned and rejected?
What?
Now that is something very difficult to accept.
19 Sep 2011, 7:07 am
Adam82 wrote:
Grisha wrote:
Adam82 wrote:
AS_Citizen_43275-B wrote:
A typical aspie male is the poster child of what nearly all (younger) women don't want. Yes, rejections are painful, I've had my share.
I'm now 30 and I've resigned myself into accepting a perpetual life being single. I don't even attempt to hit on girls anymore. Sure, it'll be nice to interact with a girl you're interested in, but face reality (see my 1st paragraph). Strangely, I don't feel lonely.
Being constantly overlooked and seeing girls go for smooth talking small-brained assholes was making me bitter and misogynistic. I'm now apathetic in seeking a relationship and as a result I'm happy and at peace. I suggest you become stoic and accept the reality of what AS is on a man. Have your soulmate find you, rather than you going through all the rejections.
Women that are understanding and tolerant of AS symptoms are too few and too far in
between. Maybe the pretty girl who likes you and accepts you for who you are is not white
or blond, as I seen a post from you that you wouldn't date a non-white girl. Your limiting yourself man!
Being single is mandatory for many aspies. It sucks, but it's reality. Grow to accept it. After all we're in a wrong planet full of prejudiced NTs.
Those women that have rejected you are not worth becoming resentful and misogynistic...
I'm now 30 and I've resigned myself into accepting a perpetual life being single. I don't even attempt to hit on girls anymore. Sure, it'll be nice to interact with a girl you're interested in, but face reality (see my 1st paragraph). Strangely, I don't feel lonely.
Being constantly overlooked and seeing girls go for smooth talking small-brained assholes was making me bitter and misogynistic. I'm now apathetic in seeking a relationship and as a result I'm happy and at peace. I suggest you become stoic and accept the reality of what AS is on a man. Have your soulmate find you, rather than you going through all the rejections.
Women that are understanding and tolerant of AS symptoms are too few and too far in
between. Maybe the pretty girl who likes you and accepts you for who you are is not white
or blond, as I seen a post from you that you wouldn't date a non-white girl. Your limiting yourself man!
Being single is mandatory for many aspies. It sucks, but it's reality. Grow to accept it. After all we're in a wrong planet full of prejudiced NTs.
Those women that have rejected you are not worth becoming resentful and misogynistic...
I am nearly at this stage. I turn 30 next year. And I have to pretty much accept that I never will have a girlfriend. AS men just don't press their buttons. Just find something more useful to dedicate my life to pursuing.
Very difficult thing to accept though, I still can't even at my age. The important thing is to
learn to enjoy the times you actually do have. Personally, I got "rejected" last night by a woman who actually hit on me first, and I spent the day with a wonderful girl who could never be my girlfriend - and it was totally awesome! I'm not kidding. It's all a matter of your perspective.
Learn to cherish the little things...
Wait...enjoy being friendzoned and rejected?
What?Now that is something very difficult to accept.
I never said it was easy, but it's possible - you only become upset because some imaginary scenario in your head didn't play out, focus on the "now": what actually happened - I like to think about how I felt when I was close to someone I was attracted to, even if it didn't last (for example). Now instead of cringing, I sigh...
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19 Sep 2011, 9:17 am
Grisha wrote:
Adam82 wrote:
Grisha wrote:
Adam82 wrote:
AS_Citizen_43275-B wrote:
A typical aspie male is the poster child of what nearly all (younger) women don't want. Yes, rejections are painful, I've had my share.
I'm now 30 and I've resigned myself into accepting a perpetual life being single. I don't even attempt to hit on girls anymore. Sure, it'll be nice to interact with a girl you're interested in, but face reality (see my 1st paragraph). Strangely, I don't feel lonely.
Being constantly overlooked and seeing girls go for smooth talking small-brained assholes was making me bitter and misogynistic. I'm now apathetic in seeking a relationship and as a result I'm happy and at peace. I suggest you become stoic and accept the reality of what AS is on a man. Have your soulmate find you, rather than you going through all the rejections.
Women that are understanding and tolerant of AS symptoms are too few and too far in
between. Maybe the pretty girl who likes you and accepts you for who you are is not white
or blond, as I seen a post from you that you wouldn't date a non-white girl. Your limiting yourself man!
Being single is mandatory for many aspies. It sucks, but it's reality. Grow to accept it. After all we're in a wrong planet full of prejudiced NTs.
Those women that have rejected you are not worth becoming resentful and misogynistic...
I'm now 30 and I've resigned myself into accepting a perpetual life being single. I don't even attempt to hit on girls anymore. Sure, it'll be nice to interact with a girl you're interested in, but face reality (see my 1st paragraph). Strangely, I don't feel lonely.
Being constantly overlooked and seeing girls go for smooth talking small-brained assholes was making me bitter and misogynistic. I'm now apathetic in seeking a relationship and as a result I'm happy and at peace. I suggest you become stoic and accept the reality of what AS is on a man. Have your soulmate find you, rather than you going through all the rejections.
Women that are understanding and tolerant of AS symptoms are too few and too far in
between. Maybe the pretty girl who likes you and accepts you for who you are is not white
or blond, as I seen a post from you that you wouldn't date a non-white girl. Your limiting yourself man!
Being single is mandatory for many aspies. It sucks, but it's reality. Grow to accept it. After all we're in a wrong planet full of prejudiced NTs.
Those women that have rejected you are not worth becoming resentful and misogynistic...
I am nearly at this stage. I turn 30 next year. And I have to pretty much accept that I never will have a girlfriend. AS men just don't press their buttons. Just find something more useful to dedicate my life to pursuing.
Very difficult thing to accept though, I still can't even at my age. The important thing is to
learn to enjoy the times you actually do have. Personally, I got "rejected" last night by a woman who actually hit on me first, and I spent the day with a wonderful girl who could never be my girlfriend - and it was totally awesome! I'm not kidding. It's all a matter of your perspective.
Learn to cherish the little things...
Wait...enjoy being friendzoned and rejected?
What?Now that is something very difficult to accept.
I never said it was easy, but it's possible - you only become upset because some imaginary scenario in your head didn't play out, focus on the "now": what actually happened - I like to think about how I felt when I was close to someone I was attracted to, even if it didn't last (for example). Now instead of cringing, I sigh...
When you accept "nothing" as the acceptable baseline, anything is considered good.
In other words, when you expect nothing, anything is a godsend.
19 Sep 2011, 3:48 pm
swbluto wrote:
Grisha wrote:
Adam82 wrote:
Grisha wrote:
Adam82 wrote:
AS_Citizen_43275-B wrote:
A typical aspie male is the poster child of what nearly all (younger) women don't want. Yes, rejections are painful, I've had my share.
I'm now 30 and I've resigned myself into accepting a perpetual life being single. I don't even attempt to hit on girls anymore. Sure, it'll be nice to interact with a girl you're interested in, but face reality (see my 1st paragraph). Strangely, I don't feel lonely.
Being constantly overlooked and seeing girls go for smooth talking small-brained assholes was making me bitter and misogynistic. I'm now apathetic in seeking a relationship and as a result I'm happy and at peace. I suggest you become stoic and accept the reality of what AS is on a man. Have your soulmate find you, rather than you going through all the rejections.
Women that are understanding and tolerant of AS symptoms are too few and too far in
between. Maybe the pretty girl who likes you and accepts you for who you are is not white
or blond, as I seen a post from you that you wouldn't date a non-white girl. Your limiting yourself man!
Being single is mandatory for many aspies. It sucks, but it's reality. Grow to accept it. After all we're in a wrong planet full of prejudiced NTs.
Those women that have rejected you are not worth becoming resentful and misogynistic...
I'm now 30 and I've resigned myself into accepting a perpetual life being single. I don't even attempt to hit on girls anymore. Sure, it'll be nice to interact with a girl you're interested in, but face reality (see my 1st paragraph). Strangely, I don't feel lonely.
Being constantly overlooked and seeing girls go for smooth talking small-brained assholes was making me bitter and misogynistic. I'm now apathetic in seeking a relationship and as a result I'm happy and at peace. I suggest you become stoic and accept the reality of what AS is on a man. Have your soulmate find you, rather than you going through all the rejections.
Women that are understanding and tolerant of AS symptoms are too few and too far in
between. Maybe the pretty girl who likes you and accepts you for who you are is not white
or blond, as I seen a post from you that you wouldn't date a non-white girl. Your limiting yourself man!
Being single is mandatory for many aspies. It sucks, but it's reality. Grow to accept it. After all we're in a wrong planet full of prejudiced NTs.
Those women that have rejected you are not worth becoming resentful and misogynistic...
I am nearly at this stage. I turn 30 next year. And I have to pretty much accept that I never will have a girlfriend. AS men just don't press their buttons. Just find something more useful to dedicate my life to pursuing.
Very difficult thing to accept though, I still can't even at my age. The important thing is to
learn to enjoy the times you actually do have. Personally, I got "rejected" last night by a woman who actually hit on me first, and I spent the day with a wonderful girl who could never be my girlfriend - and it was totally awesome! I'm not kidding. It's all a matter of your perspective.
Learn to cherish the little things...
Wait...enjoy being friendzoned and rejected?
What?Now that is something very difficult to accept.
I never said it was easy, but it's possible - you only become upset because some imaginary scenario in your head didn't play out, focus on the "now": what actually happened - I like to think about how I felt when I was close to someone I was attracted to, even if it didn't last (for example). Now instead of cringing, I sigh...
When you accept "nothing" as the acceptable baseline, anything is considered good.
EXACTLY. Very well put. I think what Grisha is trying to get at is exactly this.
19 Sep 2011, 4:54 pm
20 Sep 2011, 1:58 am
20 Sep 2011, 2:08 am
20 Sep 2011, 3:22 am
Surfman wrote:
SadAspy wrote:
NO WOMEN SHOULD BE POSTING IN THIS THREAD!
YOU ARE ALL LYING, COLD-HEARTED, MANIPULATIVE b*****s AND YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO BE ALONE!
YOU ARE ALL LYING, COLD-HEARTED, MANIPULATIVE b*****s AND YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO BE ALONE!
maybe they pick up on your bad attitude
ha ha ha
23 Sep 2011, 9:16 pm
swbluto
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23 Sep 2011, 11:16 pm
SadAspy wrote:
NO WOMEN SHOULD BE POSTING IN THIS THREAD!
YOU ARE ALL LYING, COLD-HEARTED, MANIPULATIVE b*****s AND YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO BE ALONE!
YOU ARE ALL LYING, COLD-HEARTED, MANIPULATIVE b*****s AND YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO BE ALONE!
The manipulative behavior is about testing your control/power of you in the relaationship (or potential relationship they might be thinking about). Once you understand that's why girls try to manipulate you, you can show control by rejecting their efforts and make your own demands on them, and suddenly, they're attracted to you. It's funny but, hey, it's how women generally work. They're generally attracted to independence, self-control and "power".
Now, if you yield to their demands, they might still use you depending on what they want out of the relationship, but they won't be anymore attracted to "you" because of it.
Learning to identify their "tests" and learning to respond correctly is a part of the learning curve.
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