Constant rejection from women is making me suicidal

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Well, I've read the entire topic and replies, and i must say that for a moment in my life i though just like you, in fact, i can't be hypocrite, i can still relate to your story, many people judge your attitude towards women and questions your self confidence, but here's a fun fact, even with self confidence, you WILL struggle with understanding social underlines and you WILL get a lot of relationship problems and misunderstandings IF you can get in a relationship, what you must consider Sadaspie, that it is not your fault, it is your innate behavior, but you can't use past experiences as a way to be aggressive towards meeting new women.
Use your tools, read some psychology books and train understanding people, you shall see that in fact, there are a lot of futile women out there, but there is also understanding women who can relate to you and understand you, The odds are thin, but there are brilliant women out there who seeks a relationship.
As for cutting yourself... don't do that, I've been that path before, and i must say, please don't do that, nothing is worth your life, you don't have to pretend to get a girlfriend, nobody can judge your actions but yourself, instead of choosing suicide and leave this rotting futile consuming egocentric society as a coward, prove them wrong, do something remarkable, and rub in their faces that even if you're an aspie, you can be successful and happy your OWN way!

Some women are clearly psycho and you have been probably been involved with the wrong kind of women.

I think it can be quite difficult to find a beautiful-looking woman who is not psycho or who doesn't have some deep personal issues.

I've been rejected by tons of women and I'm 26 and I don't make a big deal out of it. It's not like it's the end of the world. I believe that you can also be happy in life without a relationship with a woman, as long as there is someone, like a parent, a good friend or a sibling who cares about you and helps you in life when you need to do something that you cannot do alone.

Seriously people make a big out of it if you are virgin or never had a girlfriend before. It's not that important and there are other more important things to worry about in life.

It's just about numbers, eventually you'll find a girl who accepts you and loves you for who you are. Keep trying. Triumph sometimes comes by way of lots of sacrifice.

What has a good attitude gotten me in the past? nowhere. All the years growing up in my teens being optimistic and hopeful that people would accept me and be real friends with me if I dressed like them, listened to the same music, and mimicked their behavior.

IT GOT ME NOWHERE

People still treated me like s**t, mocked me, shunned me, used me.

Now look were I'm at now

Just turned 25, poor, ugly, uneducated, no friends, no GFs, and I'm a hermit that's been locked up in his house for the better part of the last 4 years.

My social life revolves around random people on message boards and video game chats. For all the s**t I've put up with I deserve to have a bad attitude.