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13 Aug 2011, 7:25 pm

Is this what this forum has come to?

I think so.



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13 Aug 2011, 7:34 pm

I suppose that it's just too easy to vent and complain about men, and that vents and complaints about men are all the same ... everything we say, and everything we do.


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13 Aug 2011, 7:46 pm

This forum has always been like that. >.>



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13 Aug 2011, 7:54 pm

well to those people who do that, please stop.



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13 Aug 2011, 7:57 pm

It's what this forum has always been.


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13 Aug 2011, 8:00 pm

Become the instrument of the change you want to see.


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13 Aug 2011, 9:28 pm

If you have people IRL to vent to great. Some do not. No one should be discouraged from expressing themselves as long as it is within forum rules. It is good that others are here to openly share experiences and gain different perspectives which hopefully will help us better understand the environments and or situations we might encounter.



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13 Aug 2011, 9:30 pm

venting belongs in haven. this forum should be for serious discussion.



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13 Aug 2011, 9:31 pm

minervx wrote:
venting belongs in haven. this forum should be for serious discussion.

This forum is for discussions of "Love and Dating", serious or otherwise.

Who died and made you a moderator?


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13 Aug 2011, 9:37 pm

Your right. Excuse my derailment of sensitivity.



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13 Aug 2011, 9:49 pm

curlyfry wrote:
If you have people IRL to vent to great. Some do not. No one should be discouraged from expressing themselves as long as it is within forum rules. It is good that others are here to openly share experiences and gain different perspectives which hopefully will help us better understand the environments and or situations we might encounter.

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Also Why is it that when an NT woman makes a post talking about the problems she has with her Aspie guy; members are sympathetic to her but when an Aspie guy makes a post about the problems he faces trying to get dates with women; it's considered complaining :?:


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13 Aug 2011, 9:54 pm

nick007 wrote:
curlyfry wrote:
If you have people IRL to vent to great. Some do not. No one should be discouraged from expressing themselves as long as it is within forum rules. It is good that others are here to openly share experiences and gain different perspectives which hopefully will help us better understand the environments and or situations we might encounter.

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Also Why is it that when an NT woman makes a post talking about the problems she has with her Aspie guy; members are sympathetic to her but when an Aspie guy makes a post about the problems he faces trying to get dates with women; it's considered complaining :?:

If a tree falls in the forest, and no one hears it, does it still make a sound when it falls?

If a man vents and complains, and there are no women around to hear him, is he still a whining wuss?


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13 Aug 2011, 10:09 pm

minervx wrote:
Is this what this forum has come to?

I think so.


Meh..it kinda seems human nature to complain and need to vent about things.It's a form of stress relief.
But the great thing is that seeing as these are forums and not RL,being away from it is as easy as clicking the 'back' button in your browser if you're not in the mood ;)



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13 Aug 2011, 10:16 pm

Fnord wrote:

If a man vents and complains, and there are no women around to hear him, is he still a whining wuss?


Yep :lol:



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13 Aug 2011, 10:39 pm

I'm interested in what the men to women ratio is in "love and dating". Too many men or too many women, that is the question