How can an aspy learn about love and relation?

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01 Nov 2011, 7:13 am

Ok I understand the brain chemistry part but I suspect there is more. Is it supposed to be some unwritten rule that 'only' NT's know instinctively? But it seems some aspies here are 'having relations'.

I never met anyone who is dating. Maybe somebody here can explain love and relation in a way an aspie can understand.



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01 Nov 2011, 7:20 am

How does an aspie learn about love and dating? The way I found out and lots of aspies do-the hard way and it hurts and I say this from a very recent experience with another aspie. I will hurt a long for me anyway-I have no idea how the other person feels due to my AS and I don't think they feel anything since they didn't feel the same way. Its a tough thing.


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02 Nov 2011, 9:10 am

^^^ What does that mean? I don't really know what 'dating' is.



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02 Nov 2011, 9:24 am

01001011 wrote:
Ok I understand the brain chemistry part but I suspect there is more. Is it supposed to be some unwritten rule that 'only' NT's know instinctively? But it seems some aspies here are 'having relations'.

I never met anyone who is dating. Maybe somebody here can explain love and relation in a way an aspie can understand.

your question is too broad. you should narrow it down into lots of little questions that we could help you answer.

a good thing to use is actually google. google knows a LOT about love / relationships / dating / sex, the works. google knows. lolz. maybe since you arent too experienced in the area you should ask people on here if what you've found on google is actually legit because some of the stuff you'll find will probably be terrible advice XD.

try 'askmen.com' they should have some pretty good articles on a wide-variety of topics that are all dating related.



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02 Nov 2011, 9:39 am

tronist wrote:
01001011 wrote:
Ok I understand the brain chemistry part but I suspect there is more. Is it supposed to be some unwritten rule that 'only' NT's know instinctively? But it seems some aspies here are 'having relations'.

I never met anyone who is dating. Maybe somebody here can explain love and relation in a way an aspie can understand.

your question is too broad. you should narrow it down into lots of little questions that we could help you answer.

a good thing to use is actually google. google knows a LOT about love / relationships / dating / sex, the works. google knows. lolz. maybe since you arent too experienced in the area you should ask people on here if what you've found on google is actually legit because some of the stuff you'll find will probably be terrible advice XD.

try 'askmen.com' they should have some pretty good articles on a wide-variety of topics that are all dating related.


I see people kissing in the street and going to places together. That is ALL I know about dating. If I know how to break the question down I can search myself.



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03 Nov 2011, 2:37 am

I've seen my sister date and I STILL don't get it. I don't understand how it works. My brother had a girlfriend of a sort for like 11 years but he didn't "really" love her, so I didn't understand that either.



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03 Nov 2011, 2:55 am

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03 Nov 2011, 11:31 pm

Watch the entire run of Mad Men on Netflix. b*****s love it when you pull the full Don Draper.