Growing up and done with bad boys

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Anything specific I can get you? What's your opinion?

She's too busy with her dating arrangements this Friday.

Kinme doesn't rhyme with box, therefore, I cannot be anywhere near said box, you arctic fox.

Glad I brought extra sox.

And I brought the clocks.

Brilliant.

cant argue with you as i find what youve said to be 100% true. I hear too often "ohh just wait 10 years and youll be swiming with women" when in reality it means those women finally grew out of being with thugs and such who were going nowhere and want to be with a guy that has something to offer. And im not up for that

If anyone wants to do some reading, this could be a good topic of discussion:

http://ca.askmen.com/dating/dating_advi ... -last.html

I'd say it has a good point.

Those chicks' boobies look like balloons. I wonder if they'll fly around the room if I pop them.

Yep. That's my thing, though I've not figured out the psychobabble terms for it (and wow, psychobabble is in my Linux spell check) yeah, makes sense. For me personally, I'm quite emotionally closed off, so yeah. I do attract girls like that a bit, but I'm scared off at sharing any emotional intimacy, and sorta exposing my "true self" that is quite vulnerable, so I don't. So my dating problems are less that women all hate me, or I'm a "nice guy" or whatever, it's just I don't like exposing myself emotionally. And religiously, I'm not supposed to be promiscuous, so that avenue is closed, too. So I just don't date. It doesn't help I'm TERRIBLE at picking up on girl's flirting with me, and as some have read on this board, I've blundered hugely when girls have tried to flirt with me, ie, "So do you know anything fun to do around here?" "Oh no, I don't do anything fun." I figure eventually with time, either a girl will be persistent as all hell and eventually crack me open, or I'll overcome myself. But until then, yeah...

But, I repeat, my love/dating problems aren't because all women are terrible and dumb, though some are, maybe even the majority (though the majority of most things are dumb and bad anyway) and many of the points brought up by these "hater" guys here are quite valid.

Maybe the whole "An intellectual is someone who's found something more interesting than sex." is true afterall. Or I just need to get laid. Who knows.

Just find yourself a normal guy with a good job.

I am experiencing this too....

So what we conclude out of all those confessions here (from deltafunction, the OP, the bunny lady...):

- Bad boys being commonly desired by many young women is not a myth.
- Many women can't deny the allure of the bad boys.
- It's not just in our heads, it's something real. Otherwise this debate wouldn't take place in EVERY LOVE forum (even the arabic local ones, it's that universal and cross-cultural), it's a common consensus among masses of men, and no- not only the men who are dating failures, but also commonly heard from taken/married men too. Is it a false common kind of faith or simply a mass-observation?
- Genuine nice guys (not manipulative) are seen as "Plan B" men by those same women if things totally fail with the bad boys.


Ok...me re-emerging to a bad boy!!

*remembering my age*

umm, maybe it's a bad timing tho, i should have done that earlier lol

Don't forget that anyone who says this is a passive-agressive, manipulative jerk who objectifies women and only do good deeds to be rewarded in sex.

Wait a minute. Isn't that what all men do? Why do something good for a woman if you're not getting laid?

But but but.. you're supposed to do it anyway since you value her friendship soooooo much.. not to mention being there as a shoulder cry on when her badboy mistreats her.